My uncle refused to give his daughter’s hand

[Schematics]

It is given that many Somalis will marry into others as time goes on in western countries. For those who are lucky to end up with another Somali, life goes on as a blessed nomad.

My first cousin married a green eyed good looking white woman of Scandinavian origin he met at work. His sisters claim the couple are chummy and very happy. They have a son together now. His dad and me haven't met the family yet and I am supposed to be the second oldest living male of a line who carry our grandfather's name. So I must be all the elder type nomad my uncle's lecture goes. My uncle wants to ensure the useless kid keeps it together and raises his son in the culture. All I see is a young dude interested in body building and posting half naked pictures of his showing abs and big biceps, nice cars he owns and a white wife in tow cooking somali suugo to please adoring online social fans. The kid is from the current generation who are useless in many ways. Soomaali waxba kama oga.

God help the Somalis back home. And God help the Somalis here too. At least there are millions left back home who will carry the Somali lineage without dilution.

 

[Bernie Madoff]

Your uncle smart trust me. He ain’t trying to have short ass grandchildren built like a whole fridge

 

[KobeBryant]

That’s silly reasoning, you are either for or against interracial union. I know one of my cousin who is married to cadaan woman in London not only stopped talking to the family, he cut all ties and is up to no good. He follows the wife like a puppy, the kids don’t even claim to be half Somali, on the other hand my aunt is married to a Malaysian guy, he’s currently studying in Mecca one of the sweetest people you will ever meet. It depends on the individual not their gender.

Please stop the Somali women should not marry out I’ve seen every example possible and never worked out well. Women are much more guided with there emotions than men. The mere fact that it’s mainly Somali women who marry out more than Somali men shows that we weigh our pros and cons and ultimately decide it ain’t worth cuffing these white es.

 

[Abdalla]

I am pretty sure his wife and all the female relatives will put pressure on your honourable uncle. I subscribed this thread and will bump it in few months to follow up on the developments. By then I am pretty sure little Xalimo is wed off to the Mexican.

I've seen this play out often. I'll see you in few months.

 

[Jaydaan]

Mexican raiseed by blacks muslim.....yeah i wouldnt give either. Probably muslim by word. Doubt he is practicing. Good on uncle

 

[NotMyL]

Your uncle smart trust me. He ain’t trying to have short ass grandchildren built like a whole fridge

Lol that made me laugh, have you seen that meme about Mexican women? I asked my cousin if she was sure he was Muslim because I have yet to meet a Muslim Mexican and we have decent amount of Mexicans in Minnesota.

@Abdalla of course he’s going to give in, he is planning on escaping the drama for a few weeks by coming to visit us. He’s already being pressured to give her hand, good thing is my cousin is one of those maaskin sorta religious girls, I can’t see her betraying her father.

 

[Abdalla]

Lol that made me laugh, have you seen that meme about Mexican women? I asked my cousin if she was sure he was Muslim because I have yet to meet a Muslim Mexican and we have decent amount of Mexicans in Minnesota.

@Abdalla of course he’s going to give in, he is planning on escaping the drama for a few weeks by coming to visit us. He’s already being pressured to give her hand, good thing is my cousin is one of those maaskin sorta religious girls, I can’t see her betraying her father.

The religious ones are the worst. She'll read him few ahadeeths. Religious girls can't say no to whoever asks them for their hand. They want to unify the Ummah through their wombs.

 

[Mehmet]

My worst knightmare as a present women loving future father having daughters is this

 

[Mehmet]

Lol that made me laugh, have you seen that meme about Mexican women? I asked my cousin if she was sure he was Muslim because I have yet to meet a Muslim Mexican and we have decent amount of Mexicans in Minnesota.

@Abdalla of course he’s going to give in, he is planning on escaping the drama for a few weeks by coming to visit us. He’s already being pressured to give her hand, good thing is my cousin is one of those maaskin sorta religious girls, I can’t see her betraying her father.

Only in chicago,cali and mexico there are muslim mexicans but very rare to see compared to cadan,madow and asian muslims

 

[Schematics]

Mexican raiseed by blacks muslim.....yeah i wouldnt give either. Probably muslim by word. Doubt he is practicing. Good on uncle

There was a Mexican who converted to Islam years ago in small town Minnesota and who then married a Somali girl. She did it against her family's wishes.


The largest Hispanic Muslims live in Florida and Texas. It is one of the fastest growing Islamic population through conversion.

 

[Jaydaan]

The religious ones are the worst. She'll read him few ahadeeths. Religious girls can't say no to whoever asks them for their hand. They want to unify the Ummah through their wombs.

They are the most naive because they have the least life experience. Most end divorced real quick

 

[Schematics]

Old school conservative southerners are joining Islam too

 

[Schematics]

They are the most naive because they have the least life experience. Most end divorced real quick

That would be their life experience in a way and they get rewarded for holding high Islamic ideals when they got married.

At least marrying for the wrong reasons is worse.

 

[Ugaaso]

They live in Cali, I doubt it’s anything to do with where you live.

Must be rer San diego , i'm off to do some digging!!

 

[Descendent-Of-Fiqi]

There was a Mexican who converted to Islam years ago in small town Minnesota and who then married a Somali girl. She did it against her family's wishes.

I think the parents were against her marrying another woman and coming out as a lesbian

 

[NotMyL]

Must be rer San diego , i'm off to do some digging!!

Lol yes waa reer San Diego, most of my family still lives there

 

[jamal9]

nayaa @TheShinning , tell that mexican to elope with your cousin. ur uncle will not even ask for meher, he will marry her off the next day.

 

[Nin-culus]

Please stop the Somali women should not marry out I’ve seen every example possible and never worked out well. Women are much more guided with there emotions than men. The mere fact that it’s mainly Somali women who marry out more than Somali men shows that we weigh our pros and cons and ultimately decide it ain’t worth cuffing these white es.

why you think men are logical and woman are emotional.

 

[Jaydaan]

All I wanna know is if he will pay mehr. The ones I know hacent paid and the family used the excuse of lets make it easier fir them. Basically to scared to ask for mehr

 

[Nin-culus]

All I wanna know is if he will pay mehr. The ones I know hacent paid and the family used the excuse of lets make it easier fir them. Basically to scared to ask for mehr

no chance if its anything more than a tufaax