My sister's been living a double life- cadaan boyfriend

[_Yusuf_]

In other words, all Somali diaspora women...

Like for example if things would not work out with op sister’s bf. Then that portion of her life would be shrouded in mystery.

 

[roses4me]

Update: it's final, they're getting married around early 2025

 

[Khaem]

Or he’s first choice is a fellow cadaan he’s just practicing on her

That's most white people, I heard it myself from both genders. Have fun with women exotic people then marry white

 

[Yeri]

8 years in nuts. shes not marrying him.

some of them cadaan are miskeen thinking xalimos have the guts to tell their parents about their relationship. Saw a reddit post about one the calaacling about the heartbreak a halimos caused him after being in relationship for years only for her to drop him to marry a man within her culture

Cadaans get fetishized by ethnics and get played all the time

Can u share the reddit post?

 

[Haragwaafi]

Actually he's Muslim, he converted a few years ago apperantly

That doesn't justify them being together as what they did is still haram and ask your is to repent when she still got the time

 

[Rayaale]

Feel bad for the guy who married her nigga must’ve never did a background check

Who knows he’s probably a player

Feel bad for the guy who married her nigga must’ve never did a background check

 

[Rayaale]

Update: it's final, they're getting married around early 2025

Has she told her parents yet

 

[Soul Kaizer]

In other words, all Somali diaspora women...

If im in the talking stage with a woman she better walk home. How will she contact me in the future for other dates? Pigeons ofc. I will give her a vague understanding of where i live she has to figure the rest out.

 

[empressjamila]

8 years and no guur is crazy.

Even if he does get it together and take the steps to marry her – if I were her, I would always wonder why he took so long. Was he holding out for something better and when he couldn’t find it, decided to just settle and get married?

Even for ajnabi 1-2 years of dating, and no mention of marriage is sus.

 

[roses4me]

Has she told her parents yet

Yes

 

[The Oponian Guild]

I am still in shock, I dont even know how to feel about this.
We were playing computer games together and all of a sudden she was like
"Oh btw I have a bf hehe"
I asked how long and apperantly 8 freaking years omg
When I saw how he looked this man was caadan, i had no clue who he was up to this point, she had also shown me evidence that they were actually together that long.....I how did I not notice omg

Wait a min are you from London

 

[SaMale]

Wait a min are you from London

No way on earth this is London, this must be degenerate minnesota.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

No way on earth this is London, this must be degenerate minnesota.

London is 10x more saqajaan then MN you know this aswell

 

[roses4me]

No way on earth this is London, this must be degenerate minnesota.

Im from neither

 

[SaMale]

London is 10x more saqajaan then MN you know this aswell

Unlike minnesota malis, we excommunicate our filth and keep them separate from the our pure and pious.

 

[SaMale]

Im from neither

Australia?? I know they merged with the gaal community just like the American malis.

 

[Rayaale]

Don’t they mostly go for Jamaican and South Asians

No way on earth this is London, this must be degenerate minnesota.

 

[Rayaale]

Toronto holds number one

London is 10x more saqajaan then MN you know this aswell

 

[KaiMarvin]

Can u share the reddit post?

it was a comment on r/askmen wish i screenshotted. That sub is very active, pain in the ass

finding posts forget a comment

 

[Yeri]

it was a comment on r/askmen wish i screenshotted. That sub is very active, pain in the ass

finding posts forget a comment

I decided to have a look explain to me why was there a guy lamenting about this somali girl that was his friends with benefits. Worst part is she seems outwardly somewhat religious.