My parents are mad at me and I'm in big trouble

[Kawsar Mustafa]

So I was introduced to a guy. He was really nice, and mature, which is expected since he's 24 and I'm 19. I liked him a lot so we kept getting to know each other for a short while. We were talking about health one day and I brought up STD's. I said I trusted him if he said he's clean but I still wanted test results on paper and for him to visit a urologist for his measurements down there.

He didn't call me or get in contact for a few days. My mom one day suddenky came to me habaaring me saying waan ceeboobay and that I've copied dirty white girls. I was so confused but apparently the guy ratted to his Hooyo what I asked, and she must have gleefully relayed it back to my mother painting the story horribly. My parents are saying they regret raising me in the West and that I will never get married until I get dhaqan celis.

Why are Somali parents so irrational and oppressive? Seriously, if a guy asked to see a girls hair and awrah it wouldn't be a big deal. I didn't even ask to see his awrah, I wanted freaking measurements. This is why I imagine marrying an ajnabi would be better. If he passed my 2" standard he would be confident in himself and be open minded in assuring my concerns.

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Dafuq did I just read

I hope u ain't trolling abaayo.

 

[Zainab_7]

Where did you learn that it was okay to ask about measurements

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

Dafuq did I just read

I hope u ain't trolling abaayo.

This is very real . My mom just cares too much about what other people think.

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

Where did you learn that it was okay to ask about measurements

Who said it isn't?

 

[Kudhufo Kadhaqaq]

Where did you learn that it was okay to ask about measurements

Holy shit I didn't even notice that part of the post

 

[Zainab_7]

Who said it isn't?

Sis you need to stop obsessing over penetration, studies have proven that most women aren't sexually fulfilled by that alone. You won't know what your preference is till you married i'm assuming your a virgin so why ask questions like size your mom is right its ceeb LOOL

 

[Mercury]

So I was introduced to a guy. He was really nice, and mature, which is expected since he's 24 and I'm 19. I liked him a lot so we kept getting to know each other for a short while. We were talking about health one day and I brought up STD's. I said I trusted him if he said he's clean but I still wanted test results on paper and for him to visit a urologist for his measurements down there.

He didn't call me or get in contact for a few days. My mom one day suddenky came to me habaaring me saying waan ceeboobay and that I've copied dirty white girls. I was so confused but apparently the guy ratted to his Hooyo what I asked, and she must have gleefully relayed it back to my mother painting the story horribly. My parents are saying they regret raising me in the West and that I will never get married until I get dhaqan celis.

Why are Somali parents so irrational and oppressive? Seriously, if a guy asked to see a girls hair and awrah it wouldn't be a big deal. I didn't even ask to see his awrah, I wanted freaking measurements. This is why I imagine marrying an ajnabi would be better. If he passed my 2" standard he would be confident in himself and be open minded in assuring my concerns.

You asked about his Dick size a Guy you was introduced to

 

[Emily]

You still want a ‘2 inch penis’

Girl find a man around your age, 24 is too old and he probably has stds hence why he got you in trouble lol

Listen to your vagina girl and find your own man

Arrange marriages only work in villages

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Oh your still on your search for your man.

Wallahi I don’t see nothing wrong with asking for a std test.

People are committing zina. Sometimes it’s the people you least expect it who are having sex.

It’s good that you asked. I’m planning on doing the same

 

[Guts]

So I was introduced to a guy. He was really nice, and mature, which is expected since he's 24 and I'm 19. I liked him a lot so we kept getting to know each other for a short while. We were talking about health one day and I brought up STD's. I said I trusted him if he said he's clean but I still wanted test results on paper and for him to visit a urologist for his measurements down there.

He didn't call me or get in contact for a few days. My mom one day suddenky came to me habaaring me saying waan ceeboobay and that I've copied dirty white girls. I was so confused but apparently the guy ratted to his Hooyo what I asked, and she must have gleefully relayed it back to my mother painting the story horribly. My parents are saying they regret raising me in the West and that I will never get married until I get dhaqan celis.

Why are Somali parents so irrational and oppressive? Seriously, if a guy asked to see a girls hair and awrah it wouldn't be a big deal. I didn't even ask to see his awrah, I wanted freaking measurements. This is why I imagine marrying an ajnabi would be better. If he passed my 2" standard he would be confident in himself and be open minded in assuring my concerns.

Even if you married this guy i feel like this is going to be a threeway relitionship with his mom included (basically he tells everything that happens and need an opinion from his mother).

 

[Zach]

So I was introduced to a guy. He was really nice, and mature, which is expected since he's 24 and I'm 19. I liked him a lot so we kept getting to know each other for a short while. We were talking about health one day and I brought up STD's. I said I trusted him if he said he's clean but I still wanted test results on paper and for him to visit a urologist for his measurements down there.

He didn't call me or get in contact for a few days. My mom one day suddenky came to me habaaring me saying waan ceeboobay and that I've copied dirty white girls. I was so confused but apparently the guy ratted to his Hooyo what I asked, and she must have gleefully relayed it back to my mother painting the story horribly. My parents are saying they regret raising me in the West and that I will never get married until I get dhaqan celis.

Why are Somali parents so irrational and oppressive? Seriously, if a guy asked to see a girls hair and awrah it wouldn't be a big deal. I didn't even ask to see his awrah, I wanted freaking measurements. This is why I imagine marrying an ajnabi would be better. If he passed my 2" standard he would be confident in himself and be open minded in assuring my concerns.

You care to much about physicality. The dick isn’t important if you like someone.

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

You asked about his Dick size a Guy you was introduced to

So rather he keeps his micro a secret and I found out later? I think divorcing over size is much worse agree? It was only between us anyways. We could have shaken hands for confidentiality if that's a concern.

 

[Guts]

Oh your still on your search for your man.

Wallahi I don’t see nothing wrong with asking for a std test.

People are committing zina. Sometimes it’s the people you least expect it who are having sex.

It’s good that you asked. I’m planning on doing the same

Who in their right mind would marry someone without STD tests these days,

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Who in their right mind would marry someone without STD tests these days,

Some people forget and assume their spouse is clean.

It’s best to get them tested just in case

 

[Kawsar Mustafa]

You care to much about physicality. The dick isn’t important if you like someone.

That's like saying to a guy looks aren't important. I would argue size is way more important because it has a functional purpose, while looks are aesthetic.

 

[Jake from State Farm]

Hopefully kowsar gets her 3 inch monster dick.

Rest In Peace to her vagina if she ends up with a 6 inch. she gonna need a life alert to help her get to the hospital

 

[Zach]

That's like saying to a guy looks aren't important. I would argue size is way more important because it has a functional purpose, while looks are aesthetic.

But it’s not the sizes that satisfies you it’s how he uses his size.

 

[MarehanBanker]

So I was introduced to a guy. He was really nice, and mature, which is expected since he's 24 and I'm 19. I liked him a lot so we kept getting to know each other for a short while. We were talking about health one day and I brought up STD's. I said I trusted him if he said he's clean but I still wanted test results on paper and for him to visit a urologist for his measurements down there.

He didn't call me or get in contact for a few days. My mom one day suddenky came to me habaaring me saying waan ceeboobay and that I've copied dirty white girls. I was so confused but apparently the guy ratted to his Hooyo what I asked, and she must have gleefully relayed it back to my mother painting the story horribly. My parents are saying they regret raising me in the West and that I will never get married until I get dhaqan celis.

Why are Somali parents so irrational and oppressive? Seriously, if a guy asked to see a girls hair and awrah it wouldn't be a big deal. I didn't even ask to see his awrah, I wanted freaking measurements. This is why I imagine marrying an ajnabi would be better. If he passed my 2" standard he would be confident in himself and be open minded in assuring my concerns.

Your parents would rather you get an STD than have their pride hurt, get new parents

 

[Fang4]

I hope you find a farax with your preferred measurement