My mom wants me to marry...

[Addislad]

To far in qabiil

What is your qabil huuno

 

[Qalanjo98]

It’s not important which qabiil I am, my qabiil and the guys qabiil doesn’t have beef or anything

 

[Qalanjo98]

I would appreciate if some of you guys have been trough the same dilemma, and could give some tips on what to do

 

[sambuusi]

don't give in!
you can't be forced to marry someone without your consent, morally and islamically
hopefully, your mom gets over it and accepts your final choice

 

[Lostbox]

I would appreciate if some of you guys have been trough the same dilemma, and could give some tips on what to do

Nope, never even heard of like this. Why don't you sit down and be upfront with your mom about how you feel about this situation an talk it out?

 

[CaliTedesse]

Tell your mom you don't like FOB's . Hooyo will understand

 

[anyways]

Sit down with your mom down and tell her how it is.

And pray she gets around

 

[Addislad]

It’s not important which qabiil I am, my qabiil and the guys qabiil doesn’t have beef or anything

If that is the case then what is th deal with your parents?

 

[Addislad]

don't give in!
you can't be forced to marry someone without your consent, morally and islamically
hopefully, your mom gets over it and accepts your final choice

I wish my parents would accept a laangaabs

 

[Zucchini]

I think you should stay single forever if you want to be happy

 

[Marsh]

If she keeps annoying you hit her with a flying knee

 

[sambuusi]

I wish my parents would accept a laangaabs

i respect their choice

 

[Qalanjo98]

If she keeps annoying you hit her with a flying knee

SubhanAllah...

 

[Bahabskul]

Guys my mom wanted me to marry this guy who lives in Somali, and I showed no interest. Now he is planning to marry, so he called my mom, and my mom seems to be angry at me for not showing interest at first. The guy has been calling our house twice, every day, and today I picked up the phone. He tried to start a conversation with me, and I tried to keep things short. After that he called again and asked my mom if he could live in one of the rooms in our house in Somalia, with his future wife.
I have recently started to talk to this other Somali guy(who lives in diaspora), and my mom got pissed since he is from a different clan. The whole thing is super uncomfortable and since corana is everywhere I have to spend 24/7 with a unhappy mom, who is trying to sabotage me and the diaspora guy from talking

Involve your elders in this, and contact the other guy's parents. That should help.

 

[Wakai]

Just say no, show you mother that you can make your own decisions

 

[KobeBryant]

What’s your age because it depends on how much you can relate to the guy back home culturally

 

[Marsh]

SubhanAllah...

Dire problems require dire solutions, if u ko her she will have other things to worry about.

 

[PhySom]

Don't marry from Somalia lol. You would be a professional nanny.

 

[@@@@]

SubhanAllah...

Do you have any relatives living near you that you are close to? If the situation may escalate try to keep them in contact about the situation as she seems to be relatively strong headed. Since this match making failed she will most likely continue to pair you with another suitor so you’ll need to outline to her that you want none of that. How old are you exactly?

 

[Qalanjo98]

I an turning 22 this year. I don’t want to marry someone from back home, I have worked to hard for me to end up as a housewife. I don’t really have any elder in the diaspora...