... been talkin and seeing this 22yr old xalimo for the past 16 months. I found out yesterday that she is a feminist but she don't know that I know. I did some research on feminists and found out that there several types of feminists such liberal, cultural, libertarian and radical feminists, etc. The radical ones are the most anti-men who blame men for all their misery. Do you think I can "convert" her to a normal xalimo or is she a lost cause?
my girl is feminist...
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Odds are she may be 'normal' if this revelation only dawned on you yesterday.
It's a non-issue unless she's on the radical or hyper liberal fringes. Feminism is quite broad. Discuss how she feels about certain topics and you'll get a good feel for her outlook.
Controversial, but in my opinion it'd be a red flag if she was vocal about it. Obviously she doesn't seem to be... so you're good as long as you see eye-to-eye on things like abortion.
It's a non-issue unless she's on the radical or hyper liberal fringes. Feminism is quite broad. Discuss how she feels about certain topics and you'll get a good feel for her outlook.
Controversial, but in my opinion it'd be a red flag if she was vocal about it. Obviously she doesn't seem to be... so you're good as long as you see eye-to-eye on things like abortion.
AdoonkaAlle
Ragna qowl baa xira, dumarna meher baa xira.
sxb wey ku dhamatay, cagaha waxa ka dey
When you were "single" you were
laakin hadeer
indho sarcaad baa lagu haye until you get told
AdoonkaAlle
Ragna qowl baa xira, dumarna meher baa xira.
@jamal9
kaftaanka aside, you need to realise that feminist thought has by far and large been internalised i would say by majority of muslim women in the west. It's part of their identity politics, question you need to ask yourself is how far immersed is she into the movement ?
At that age i don't think most question the underlining principles that feminism is based on, so you will most definitely have a clash of views which i believe are irreconcilable, is it worth the hassle to try and convince her otherwise ?
kaftaanka aside, you need to realise that feminist thought has by far and large been internalised i would say by majority of muslim women in the west. It's part of their identity politics, question you need to ask yourself is how far immersed is she into the movement ?
At that age i don't think most question the underlining principles that feminism is based on, so you will most definitely have a clash of views which i believe are irreconcilable, is it worth the hassle to try and convince her otherwise ?
AdoonkaAlle
Ragna qowl baa xira, dumarna meher baa xira.
war sxb waa maxay waxaad sheegaysid, ?
I meant feminist is an abstract is not an object. No two feminist agree on definition.
XamarWeeaboo
You expected something here didn't you?!?!?
Lost cause, she's a western xarlimoid and that species has unfortunately become the face of the radical feminist movement. I suggest find yourself someone else.
AdoonkaAlle
Ragna qowl baa xira, dumarna meher baa xira.
Lady Whistledown
Igu Waalo
Sxb, you would be hard-pressed to find ANY WOMAN, much less a feminist, that would be okay with being told that.
You are delusional
How so?
If he can provide for two families than there shouldn't be a problem
Laakiin he's making things way too easy by saying "I will tell her that I plan to have 2 wives in the future." war yaa ilaahay yaqaan you don't even have 1 wife and you're talking about a 2nd xaas walaal first get married to 1 xaas and than see how marriage life is waxa la ka yaaba when she starts giving birth you might forget about another wife
How so?
If he can provide for two families than there shouldn't be a problem
Laakiin he's making things way too easy by saying "I will tell her that I plan to have 2 wives in the future." war yaa ilaahay yaqaan you don't even have 1 wife and you're talking about a 2nd xaas walaal first get married to 1 xaas and than see how marriage life is waxa la ka yaaba when she starts giving birth you might forget about another wife
Most girls don't want to share. We don't care. My man and my man only.
I didn't say every xaas would want to share her husband maxa kugu dhacey adi is daji
It doesn't really matter whether you care or not walaal at the end of the day it's up to the guy if he wants to take on a 2nd wife
I suggest you discuss with your potential husband that you don't him to marry a 2nd and might as well put that into your contract so if he goes against it than you're entitled to a divorce which he can't refuse
Horta which halimo are you? Are you the one that's married mise the other one
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