I've even spotted grey hair on his head now 
I know, asking is not malicious but it is weird to ask someone who just got married if they are pregnant. They are not like dooro iyo diiq. Plus, people who are asking don't know about their plans.Miskeen, even when she has a child they'll ask when she's going to have more. Imagine asking someone that and they miscarried or couldn't have children.
That being said I don't think its malicious, just a conversation starter. Albeit a very awkward one.
Wow! walaahi some people are so annoying why do they care so much about your business. Aniga when I got married I was in school and we decided to have children after finishing college then everyone thought we were barren.It's sp unbelievable walahi, our people are soo noisy.
It makes matters worse too because you start having thoughts of " I might b shooting blanks".
In to my second month of marriage I had weekly occurance of " mey soo sidaa".
Just to stop the unrelenting questions I had her pregnant on our 7 weeks together.
And now my close homeboy is feeling the heat. It's drawing close to a year and he has confided in us that he just can't have the family planning he wanted to have because now his manhood is being questioned.
Is a month too short or too long of a time?
Mashaa Allah! May Allah grant them righteous children. They understand that Allah will grant them children whenever he wills.
They can do that. Maybe they are content with each other or without children. There is this woman who has been married for over 20 years and she was not able to conceive. Her husband already had 10 children with his previous wife. Her relatives told her ask for divorce however, she said no.
How many kids do you have? I am guessing you have many kids since you are willing to give them away.Yes I'm willing to give them away
I'm not married yet.
