My dilemma with marriage

I want to marry a girl from the west but I don’t want to raise my children in the west. I feel like it’s a fairy tale to expect a girl in the west to relocate and move to a Muslim country in 10 years or so from now. And I don’t blame them. I just can’t imagine myself having daughters and sons in this degenerate society.

Why marry a girl from the west and not back in a Muslim country you might be wondering? I find girls in the west better looking, more hygienic, they haven’t had fgm/sunnah done on them(a big no for me), and I feel like personality wise we would be much more compatible.

Any of you guys got any thoughts?
 

GemState

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I want to marry a girl from the west but I don’t want to raise my children in the west. I feel like it’s a fairy tale to expect a girl in the west to relocate and move to a Muslim country in 10 years or so from now. And I don’t blame them. I just can’t imagine myself having daughters and sons in this degenerate society.

Why marry a girl from the west and not back in a Muslim country you might be wondering? I find girls in the west better looking, more hygienic, they haven’t had fgm/sunnah done on them(a big no for me), and I feel like personality wise we would be much more compatible.

Any of you guys got any thoughts?
Marry a girl from the west, relocate to one of the Gulf nations to raise your kids in a Muslim country and for good pay, then pick a African country to live comfy in for holidays/future retirement. Rotate between the 3 til retirement.

Only choice if you don't want a long term future in the west but wanna keep a good quality of life
 
Marry a girl from the west, relocate to one of the Gulf nations to raise your kids in a Muslim country and for good pay, then pick a African country to live comfy in for holidays/future retirement. Rotate between the 3 til retirement.

Only choice if you don't want a long term future in the west but wanna keep a good quality of life
Tbh I’m a software engineer, don’t need to relocate to the gulf countries for good pay as I’ll be working from home. I can get paid the same amount living in London or a village in sool doesn’t really matter as long as I have good internet, a laptop and an office. I work with a guy living in thailand lol. Being a digital nomad. :banderas:
 
Why? The West has way more opportunities, better education, better standard of living, having your kids in the West and making them move back home isn't the best move, I'm assuming you want to get them their citizenship.

Even if you raise them there and do everything right, there is no way you'll know how they turn out, raise them as best as you can and be there for them, if they fall short, not much you can do.
 
Why? The West has way more opportunities, better education, better standard of living, having your kids in the West and making them move back home isn't the best move, I'm assuming you want to get them their citizenship.

Even if you raise them there and do everything right, there is no way you'll know how they turn out, raise them as best as you can and be there for them, if they fall short, not much you can do.
Yeah I don’t want that transgender propaganda forced down my children’s throat from the age of 5. :nahgirl:
 

Periplus

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If Al Shabab was completely destroyed, and Somalia in 10 years was much more safer and prosperous you might catch me sipping mango juice at a big villa in xamar but I doubt that would happen.

Fair enough, I would do the same.

But I’m also thinking of moving to the Middle East in a few years. Somalis, esp ones with Western passports and can speak Arabic are really respected there.

Might go there and get the bag for a few years lol.
 
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Fair enough, I would do the same.

But I’m also thinking of moving to the Middle East in a few years. Somalis, esp ones with Western passports and can speak Arabic are really respected there.

Might go there and get the bag for a few years lol.
Yeah I don’t think I could work in the Middle East, the weather is just too hot for me.

With my job I could work back home for a UK company, and won’t have to pay UK taxes, plus the cost of living is really cheap. Probably save 85 % of my salary every year whilst living like royalty.
 

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