Muslim Twitter going crazy again

[Amk]

Who is holding out women back? Every damn islmaic lecture in somali is about how to please your man wth.we are brainwashed into worshipping men thats why the somali women has no identity outside of men which is theyre miserable constantly used and abused.

Islamic knowledge is freely avaiable for everyone. if a women really wanted to learn she would

 

[anonimo]

Non Muslim women please their husbands even when they're on their periods with blow jobs and other means of sexual act. I don't know what makes Muslim women so special ?

Then why do you wanna get a mail order Muslim virgin bride from Somalia instead of Becky from the Block who will milk your manhood dry?

Also, our Xalimos, even Western born ones, do not generally Gumeysi their husbands when it comes to conjugal rights. No comparison bro, Xalimos Rule!

 

[Angelina]

Then why do you wanna get a mail order Muslim virgin bride from Somalia instead of Becky from the Block who will milk your manhood dry?

Also, our Xalimos, even Western born ones, do not generally Gumeysi their husbands when it comes to conjugal rights. No comparison bro, Xalimos Rule!

This gumeysi in general wouldn't even be a common problem if some men acted like compassionate humans rather than animalistic Neanderthals. They behave like sex is just for them and then act suprised when women aren't interested. Sex education is definitely lacking in the Muslim community.

 

[anonimo]

This gumeysi in general wouldn't even be a common problem if some men acted like compassionate humans rather than animalistic Neanderthals. They behave like sex is just for them and then act suprised when women aren't interested.

Walaal

You gotta pick wisely but it is the draw of the luck for women.

Women also lose interest in sex more than men during marriage because of childbirth etc. when temporary hormonal changes occur. Our women have to be appreciated for the fact that they put out even if they ain't in the mood etc. because they understand the concept of marital duty.

I get you though, men in general have to be appreciative of our Xalimos and be sexually considerate to their needs or at least show gratitude in other ways for the sacrifices that come with being a woman.

When are you going to sleep? Waxan Waa Wali! Your one woman crusade against Faraxkind will cause you to switch sides and marry a Xalimo.

 

[Hybrid()]

Then why do you wanna get a mail order Muslim virgin bride from Somalia instead of Becky from the Block who will milk your manhood dry?

Also, our Xalimos, even Western born ones, do not generally Gumeysi their husbands when it comes to conjugal rights. No comparison bro, Xalimos Rule!

Xalimos from back home are more cultural and obedient even though they aren't submissive in bed and I also wanna have several wives throughout my lifetime

 

[anonimo]

Xalimos from back home are obedient even though they aren't submissive in bed and I also wanna have several wives throughout my lifetime

Nigga, no joke, you are better off with an 'Ilbax' Xalimo from the West who will do what Becky does cos they fit your sexual appetite.

Yeah you can mould the ones back home to fit your sexual tastes but why teach them something which many of them find repulsive or alien? Then again, I am of a bit of a prude when it comes to somethings and Allah knows if they get to like what you have in store for those lambs to the slaughter.

 

[Hybrid()]

Nigga, no joke, you are better off with an 'Ilbax' Xalimo from the West who will do what Becky does cos they fit your sexual appetite.

Yeah you can mould the ones back home to fit your sexual tastes but why teach them something which many of them find repulsive or alien? Then again, I am of a bit of a prude when it comes to somethings and Allah knows if they get to like what you have in store for those lambs to the slaughter.

Lets be honest sxb. You can't control a women who doesn't need to rely on you for financial support. Having kids in the west can even destroy you mentally and financially thanks to the gaal system. All my family support my decision of leaving the west for good but it wouldn't be possible without making smart investments with my savings alhamdulillah

 

[bidenkulaha]

Women are a big hassle. But I do dislike the expectation that they serve their man sexually. Very disturbing mindset for a man to have. This should always be a conversation between partners and if they can’t agree they should divorce.

The issue is always financially they cannot so as a man you should always be ready to depart when she is not willing to go the bedroom with you. A dead marriage isn’t worth it.

 

[anonimo]

Lets be honest sxb. You can't control a women who doesn't need to rely on you for financial support. Having kids in the west can even destroy you mentally and financially thanks to the gaal system. All my family support my decision of leaving the west for good but it wouldn't be possible without making smart investments with my savings alhamdulillah

Masha Allah regarding your investments!

Please excuse me brother, this will be a bit long.

I understand your sentiment about controlling the purse strings. However, you cannot blanket stereotype all Xalimos just like the way it is wrong to stereotype all Faraxs. I am aware that our diaspora society and people in general are less selfless, however, there are still a lot of good folk out there. Not every prospective Xalimo in the West is a Qumaayo looking to make your married life hell. There are a lot of married Faraxs and Xalimos that are contently married. It also boils down to luck to an extent.

Secondly, IMO, for the sake of your kids, nothing beats a Raaliyo moderately educated, respectful, religiously and culturally balanced, financially independent Western Xalimo in my opinion. They are not unicorns by the way, hard to find in the average Shukansi circle, but they exist. You do not have to worry too much about the future of your kids if something tragic were to happen to you. Such a Xalimo also knows about the pitfalls of living in the West in regard to raising children and can also adapt to living back home. Let us keep it real, unless they are a millionaire, most Somalis who move abroad return to the West at some point for education, health, work reasons etc.

Lastly, this is subjective, but isn't it better to opt for someone you can relate to on many levels, culturally; intellectually etc.? For instance get jokes which are rooted in a shared sociocultural upbringing.

However, you know what serves you best, if you are about having complete authority; a baby machine that also serves your sexual needs, then going for a FOB dime makes sense. You do not have to negotiate life with them, you lead, they strictly follow! Moreover, you are partly a FOB so I guess it is wrong to expect you to value things which a cultural mongrel like me does.

 

[Qeelbax]

Xalimos from back home are more cultural and obedient even though they aren't submissive in bed and I also wanna have several wives throughout my lifetime

Ain’t you the one who goes on excursions to Colombia for prostitutes?

I hope you never get your hands on an innocent xalimo, nonetheless multiple, you deserve a that’s your kin. Stay away from chaste pious women you sexual degenerate

#VirginsForVirgins #Wh*resForWhores

 

[anonimo]

Bit it in bold is messed. I don't see how can you can greenlight that.
He simply wants control, even a decent women with her own income is a threat, in fact if his miskeen bride was to start making money, or inherit money he'd be worried. A lot of men with his thinking have an abusers mindset. The idea of freewill scares them. The same man who has issues with the 'West' but sleeps around.

They need to understand that they are not God and their obsession of trying to control the future will be the end of the them.

I can't wait until Somali becomes an economically stable country and our women don't need to be married off like cattle to control freaks so that they can have opportunities. Right now a lot Faraxs are loving the turmoil Somalia is in, as without the war and without poverty, they can't go back home and exploit women by waving their passports.

The bit in bold is his, and that of many traditionally minded men, rationale for seeking a docile, dependent and subservient woman. They want traditional gender roles in marriage, something that has become distorted in Western society and is partially responsible for causing it to socially decay in my opinion. There is a power imbalance in such a relationship which could be cause for concern as demonstrated by how some awful men treat women all over the world but they shall be judged by a higher power for such transgressions. Nothing anyone can do about it as it is delusionary to expect universal Cadaalad in this Dunya. Just count yourself lucky you are in a position to select your spouse and survive without him if circumstances dictate.

Moreover, not all men who seek such a wife are abusive just because authority is concentrated in their hands. Some just have Old Skool values or are very religious and want a homemaker whose main occupation is looking after the household in an Islamic environment. This does not necessarily imply they are evil. In actual fact, a lot of them provide handsomely for their wives whose every need is catered for. What is wrong with that if both parties are happy and no one is being abused Islamically speaking?

As for Hybrid, according to his online persona, he is disillusioned with Western based marriages and does not want to end up losing his wealth if a marriage collapses as often occurs in the USA to men; the legal system unfairly punishes men in many cases. His second reason is what you highlighted in bold. I cannot criticise him solely on the above. However, I can, and have previously commented on his desire to have the best of both worlds.

He identifies as Muslim culturally speaking but does not want a hijabi Muslima for a wife. Thus, it is illogical to seek a Muslim Somali woman from Somalia just to satisfy his desire to have ethnically and culturally Somali children. Islam and Somali culture back home are closely intertwined, you cannot really have one without the other. He is basically stuck between a Rock and a Hard Place hence why is he doing a Frankenstein by importing a bride and then moulding her to suit his bespoke taste. I have already voiced my thoughts on this matter but who am I at the end of the day?

There are plenty of diaspora Somali girls who are very liberal but they won't do for him because they are often culturally more Cadaan and usually can't speak Somali well. He is a proud semi-FOB who abhors the thought of watching Romcoms whilst indulging in a bottle of Pied Noir with a Whitewashed significant other Xalimo.




Life is too short to stress about its perceIved injustices. Just do you!

 

[liya]

Xalimos from back home are more cultural and obedient even though they aren't submissive in bed and I also wanna have several wives throughout my lifetime

And pigs can fly.