Most Western Somali marriages collapse due to immense greed and frivolous spending by the Somali female partner

[Parailia somalensis]

did he just sit there while she drained it all?
it's not that hard to assert your male dominance

Most Western Somali women have a scarcity mindset because majority were raised in the projects. They have been influenced and damaged by their greedy mothers who raised them.

 

[Parailia somalensis]

Are you not atheist?

A politician has no religion. My allegiances shift like the wind.

 

[karkaar]

A lot of somali girls dont know how to save.Thats why u have a joint account and your own separate account.Use one to build your own wealth and put just enough in the other to be able to pay all the bills ect.If she wants to go out without u being there its on her .Imagine if you reverse the situation and I use my wifes money to hang out with my boys, sounds ridiculous right.Leisure Money comes out of your own pocket unless we having fun together

 

[Siddhartha]

Somali men need to move away from Somali women. They don’t raise their kids well and aren’t good in bed and are notoriously materialistic. I can’t think of one redeeming quality that they have. Also Their “beauty” Is overrated . Peel away the ibs of make up, strip them of their headscarf with which they conceal their massive foreheads and you will see their true image.

This is very true Somali women don't know how to treat men as you grow up this becomes evident, hell even the south Asian and central Asian women I've dated are way more feminine than Somalian women.

 

[Desert Flower]

Did they not have a conversation about finances before they got married? That could've been sorted out prior.

Is wifey #2 going to suffer now that your friend has been "burned?"

 

[CBus]

My University dorm mate just walked away from his Somali marriages last week. The major cause of the dissolution of the marriage was entirely based on greed and frivolous spending in part of the female partner. The lady refused to contribute to the household and wasted the mans hard earned money on trips with her female hen groups. I always told my mate to not get married or at least push it till he reached 30 but he didn't want to hear any of it. Misguided guy based it all on love and now the reality is setting in. I don't even know why he entertained a woman who was not going to contribute to the households bills.

It is a good lesson for him since he will learn from this.

Should have discussed finances before getting married.

 

[Bossanova]

The same niggas who spend all their money on Jordans and Forex courses are saying xalimos can’t save.

Somalis don’t know how to save money, period. Men and woman.

we have the mentality that “Oh, Allah will provide”. But people refuse to tie the camel first. No education in investing intelligently and conservatively, staying away from auto loans and financing, investing in training and education and teaching their childern to save their money and stop spending it on postmates and uber eats.

How many people do you see waisting money on a new car (a depreciating asset) while they still eat welfare money and live in a shithole.

Do you expect that their standard will change when you make them marry their cousin?

 

[Mahacagalla]

The same niggas who spend all their money on Jordans and Forex courses are saying xalimos can’t save.

Somalis don’t know how to save money, period. Men and woman.

we have the mentality that “Oh, Allah will provide”. But people refuse to tie the camel first. No education in investing intelligently and conservatively, staying away from auto loans and financing, investing in training and education and teaching their childern to save their money and stop spending it on postmates and uber eats.

How many people do you see waisting money on a new car (a depreciating asset) while they still eat welfare money and live in a shithole.

Do you expect that their standard will change when you make them marry their cousin?

I’ll never understand why someone finances a car. If you can afford it buy it if you can’t don’t! All that just to impress other ppl

but that’s not true plenty of Somali ppl are good at saving money. I know a lot of ppl that graduated got a good job and still live with there parents even though they have tons ofmoney to be living on their own. At the same time I know a lot of “money is meant to be spent, you can die anyday.” Type of people. I would say we’re pretty avg at saving money.

 

[TheMadMullah]

I have said this many times Somali women behave like parasites especially when the partner is Somali man... they want to leech the mans hard earned income like there is no tomorrow while she is not contributing a penny.

only a fool will entertain the parasitic behavior of xalimos

 

[bluebird]

men try to attract women with their wealth and complain when a gold digger bites.

 

[SOULSEARCHING]

Same thing happened to Somali guy here his wife was buying new furniture every week lol

 

[Manafesto]

Never tell your wife how much money you make, your account balance or your finances, that is an advise every Somali elder would tell you and it honestly works for the greater good, I don't discuss my wife with my money, I provide for her and pay our expenses even when she works and that is all what matters, if you tell a Halimo your stash she would instantly make plans for unnecessary vacation and expenditures and you will be left penniless.

 

[Factz]

A real woman will help keep your wallet full not give you minuses in your bank account. A real man would assert his dominance and take care of his money and not allow his wife to abuse his bank account. He can provide for her and maintain her needs but that's it. Clearly, these are low-quality women since they're gold-diggers raised in the projects and offer nothing to the table. It's better as an educated financially stable man to marry educated women since they have knowledge about finance, know the importance of saving money and future plannings i.e kids and their needs.

 

[Bossanova]

A real woman will help keep your wallet full not give you minuses in your bank account. A real man would assert his dominance and take care of his money and not allow his wife to abuse his bank account. He can provide for her and maintain her needs but that's it. Clearly, these are low-quality women since they're gold-diggers raised in the projects and offer nothing to the table. It's better as an educated financially stable man to marry educated women since they have knowledge about finance, know the importance of saving money and future plannings.

Your name rings true once again

 

[firefox]

how the f*ck do you let a woman just drain your money like that, the dumbass deserved it

 

[Gambar]

Never tell your wife how much money you make, your account balance or your finances, that is an advise every Somali elder would tell you and it honestly works for the greater good, I don't discuss my wife with my money, I provide for her and pay our expenses even when she works and that is all what matters, if you tell a Halimo your stash she would instantly make plans for unnecessary vacation and expenditures and you will be left penniless.

Trust me, Somali women know everything we just pretend to not know to keep the peace. It’s better to pretend you’re clueless sometimes.

 

[Nilotufian]

*screams in broke bois*