More than 1M people in Japan barely leave their homes.

General Asad

And What Is Not There Is Always More Than There.
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About a year ago Mika Shibata’s youngest son returned to the family home and went wordlessly upstairs. He has yet to emerge from his bedroom. At the age of 26, he sleeps during the day and stays awake at night. His mother feeds and shelters him, hoping he will emerge from this state. But she frets he never will. “The longer this situation continues, the harder it is for him to step back into society,” she says.

The Shibata family’s pain is shared by many others in Japan. The government says there are more than 1m hikikomori, or recluses, defined as people who have played no part in society for at least six months. Many have barely stepped outside their homes for decades. A handful of alarming crimes have pushed them back into public view. In May a recluse, aged 51, stabbed two people, including a child, to death in the city of Kawasaki before committing suicide. In June a retired official murdered his own son, a middle-aged hikikomori, because he said he feared he might hurt someone.

When the phenomenon became widely noticed over a generation ago, few understood it. Recluses were considered lazy or odd. Mental-health care was scarce and official support nonexistent. Parents felt responsible and were too mortified to look for help. But even now, occasional crimes involving recluses stoke concerns that they are dangerous, says Morito Ishizaki, a recovered hikikomori who runs a magazine for sufferers. In fact, he explains, they are rarely criminal. Many have just buckled under pressure at school or work and have withdrawn to their childhood sanctuaries.

Support groups are springing up around the country. Tokyo is among several cities with helplines and websites that try to reach shut-ins, who range from teenage school dropouts to salarymen who have been sacked. Ageing parents often come seeking help, says Ichiro Miyazawa of Tokyo’s metropolitan government. He says they worry that after they die, their hikikomori children will not be able to survive.

More than half of Japan’s recluses are now aged over 40, according to a Cabinet Office survey this year. That shocked the government, which had assumed the condition mainly afflicted the young. Tamaki Saito, a psychiatrist who popularised the term hikikomori, says the government is partly to blame for turning a blind eye. Now the problem has grown. If it is not tackled seriously, many more might become recluses, he says.

Yet luring isolated people in their 40s and 50s back into society is hard, Mr Miyazawa accepts. The city can send counsellors out to homes only if asked. But often families themselves cannot communicate with their reclusive children. Mrs Shibata speculates that her son was bullied at work, but cannot be sure. He has not said a word since he returned. His two brothers cannot talk to him. One day the bright, sensitive man she knew will bounce back, she hopes. But many may never come out of their shells.


https://amp.economist.com/asia/2019...ave-become-recluses?__twitter_impression=true

Japan society is so messed up :uCkf6mf:
 

Medulla

Bah Qabiil Fluid
Mental health is so important it can happen to anyone which a lot of people forget till it's too late.Build support networks try not to cut off people unless needed and keep yourself active these things are needed for us to exist.
 
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General Asad

And What Is Not There Is Always More Than There.
Mental health is so important it can happen to anyone which a lot of people forget till it's too late.Build support networks try not to cut off people unless needed and keep yourself activity these things are needed for us to exist.

I agree. Once one of your loved ones start to not behave like they used to, this.should prompt an intervention of some sorts.

Problem with Japan is its too individualistic (everyone for them selves mentality) combined with..... Lack of empathy? Why allow them to hole themselves up and become recluses in the first place?
 

Exodus

Alienist
Japan's society and work expectations are cancer. I'd never leave my room as well, what's out there? 80+ hours weeks for 50 years?
 

Radical

Been there, done that
Tbh I don't mind that reclusive lifestyle, especially in today's world with high work hours and low pay, it's only a problem when you're still leaching off your parents cause you're supposed to be financially supportive at that age.

But If I win something like a lottery I'm gonna give half of it to my parents and buy nice place all by myself and enjoy the beauty of a simple, peaceful life in solitude for a good ten years and then maybe decide if I should get married.


But that's just introverted me daydreaming.
 

General Asad

And What Is Not There Is Always More Than There.
Japanese hold their altruism (the belief in or practice of disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others) in high regard.

They were warned that this behavior would be devastating if left unchecked.

"Yoshimasa Nakazato, professor emeritus at Toyo University, has been researching altruism among the Japanese.

In one of his experiments, Nakazato, a social psychologist, has measured the degree of compassion for others by getting primary school students to play a game, then studying how winners used the game chips they gained.

“My concern in those days was that our society would become a very brutal place in the future if we left such problems unattended–and I see signs that this is coming true,” Nakazato warns."

https://thesituationist.wordpress.com/2007/05/21/the-loss-of-empathy-in-japan/
 
Japanese hold their altruism (the belief in or practice of disinterested and selfless concern for the well-being of others) in high regard.

They were warned that this behavior would be devastating if left unchecked.

"Yoshimasa Nakazato, professor emeritus at Toyo University, has been researching altruism among the Japanese.

In one of his experiments, Nakazato, a social psychologist, has measured the degree of compassion for others by getting primary school students to play a game, then studying how winners used the game chips they gained.

“My concern in those days was that our society would become a very brutal place in the future if we left such problems unattended–and I see signs that this is coming true,” Nakazato warns."

https://thesituationist.wordpress.com/2007/05/21/the-loss-of-empathy-in-japan/
'Altruism' means helping others...? :umwhat:
 

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