I don’t really think it’s the parents. A lot of them are working hard trying to do the best they can. Contrary to popular opinion, Somali parents are strict about education and religion regardless of gender. So, what is the problem. I think it’s outside of the home. Most of the people, that murder these teenage boys are around the same social circle. When a person has argument, I think boys are affected more because they feel the need to protect their honor and pride among other boys. Something about not being a b****. Therefore, I believe they threatened each other with violence so that they can posture about toughness. Social media can exaggerate this too. Sometimes, these young boys flex guns to make themselves look tough.
Why do I think this? because I think boys who are usually alone or are too busy don’t really have this issue.
Young men throughout history has had these problems. So, what do people usually do in the past? They put them in the military to fight wars which is bad in my opinion or make them busy with jobs like around FDRs time period.
Which is why I believe you should separate these teenage boys by making them busy with afterschool activities, jobs, or some other programs so that they would be too busy to be hanging out with these groups of bored young boys who have nothing else to do except posture with each other.