Men would you be ok to marry a woman who was intimate with anther man for your first marriage?

[solo_man]

Yeah, I forgot the latest amendment to Quran in which zina was only haram for women.

its haram for both men and women but allah addressed the women first about zina and told them to cover up

why didnt allah tell me to wear hijab?

 

[Sky Geeljire]

What a preposterous question

Of course not

 

[citrus_samurai]

its haram for both men and women but allah addressed the women first about zina and told them to cover up

why didnt allah tell me to wear hijab?

Surah An-Nur

Tell the believing men that they must lower their gazes and guard their private parts; it is more decent for them. Surely Allah is All-Aware of what they do. (30)
And tell the believing women that they must lower their gazes and guard their private parts, and must not expose their adornment, except that which appears thereof, and must wrap their bosoms with their shawls, and must not expose their adornment, except to their husbands or their fathers or the fathers of their husbands, or to their sons or the sons of their husbands, or to their brothers or the sons of their brothers or the sons of their sisters, or to their women, or to those owned by their right hands, or male attendants having no (sexual) urge, or to the children who are not yet conscious of the shames of women. And let them not stamp their feet in a way that the adornment they conceal is known. And repent to Allah O believers, all of you, so that you may achieve success. (31)

 

[liftbrah]

@Angelina So now you understand the nature of some muslim men, where do you think this sexism of seeing women as lower than them, being bought with mehr, cooking and cleaning only and not working; comes from?

 

[Qeelbax]

People should marry who they like, some people want to marry virgins some people can accept someone who was active.
Personally, I’m not interested in community d*ck as I believe in soul ties. I only want a virgin man

#virginsforvirgins

 

[Qeelbax]

well in the community if a man does zina and a girl does zina its worse for the girl thats a fact we can try and pretend its not but a girl will have a bad rep!

You can not tell if a man has been with other women but you can tell if a woman has been with a man

the man is paying the meher so he expects a top notch quality and new

Lmao, in somali culture both are bad
And I don’t care what others think. Somalis are against zina because we are muslim. Ethiopians are s because they aren’t muslim, we would’ve been like them if it weren’t for deen. In front of god, you hold the same weight. If anything you are worse for trying to justify it and claiming one is worse.
Nacala.

 

[Qeelbax]

no its different for man a man marries a woman not the other way round so a man expects a new fresh product

Fresh product? If you want a fresh peoduct get in line to get the newest product at the store, or go to your nearest farmers market and buy some fresh veggies/greens

 

[Qeelbax]

its haram for both men and women but allah addressed the women first about zina and told them to cover up

why didnt allah tell me to wear hijab?

You have hijab you mentally deficient khanzeer

 

[TekNiKo]

Sex and virginity dont matter as long as she has a good heart and treats me well I will marry her if Allah SWT can forgive who am I to be so holier than thou? We all make mistakes

 

[Unbothered]

If you are unclean than you shouldn’t expect a clean person .

 

[Abdisamad]

Sex and virginity dont matter as long as she has a good heart and treats me well I will marry her if Allah SWT can forgive who am I to be so holier than thou? We all make mistakes

I don't think I could accept if she had Mia Khalifa kinda past but if it was minor issues and she was changed for the better and not ing around I wouldn't mind either..

 

[Qeelbax]

@Angelina So now you understand the nature of some muslim men, where do you think this sexism of seeing women as lower than them, being bought with mehr, cooking and cleaning only and not working; comes from?

Shut up, the fcker doesn’t even know what hijab is. Mehr is meant for financial security in case they divorce or he passes away and she doesn’t have anything. Mehr can be small or big, it’s an extra that comes with marriage. Women can work, and it’s sunnah to help maintain the home with your wife. Don’t even think about talking about our men like that, wecelyahow.

You’re daydreaming if you think your gonna convince @Angelina with this 100% flawed rhetoric. Maybe try r/progressive_islam and go brainwash a cucked “muslim”.

 

[reer]

yes of she is tolka.

 

[Periplus]

its haram for both men and women but allah addressed the women first about zina and told them to cover up

why didnt allah tell me to wear hijab?

Allah SWT tells men to lower their gaze first.

 

[Bundasliga]

@Angelina So now you understand the nature of some muslim men, where do you think this sexism of seeing women as lower than them, being bought with mehr, cooking and cleaning only and not working; comes from?

Muslim culture &not from islam

 

[Bundasliga]

Dude you'll never know if a girl did zina before & lies.
If you virgin & she lies about her past divorce her & get your mehr back wrote that also in your marriage contract.

 

[Ladylike]

What does that have to do with you? Do you know for a fact that she has slept witj someone? The only thing that matters is has she changed her behavior by repenting to Allah. This is between her and Allah. Leave it to him.

 

[Bundasliga]

What does that have to do with you? Do you know for a fact that she has slept witj someone? The only thing that matters is has she changed her behavior by repenting to Allah. This is between her and Allah. Leave it to him.

The only thing that matters for you

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

It's only fair to have that expectation if you weren't doing a madness yourself. You forfeit your right to demand a chaste woman the moment you commit zina

No way bruh, we’re selfish and hypocrites when it comes to this.

 

[Mercury]

allah adressed the women first about zina and told them to cover up and he never told men to cover up meaning women hold more power in seducing

Actually when Allah speaks of lowering the gaze and hijab he speaks about the men first in suraat Noor "tell the believing males first to lower their gazes and protect their private parts"

And one whole verse later he says "Also tell the believing women"

The point you dont seem to grasp is that hijab isn't just for women its for guys aswell lower your gaze and you won't even know who got hijab or what shes wearing

For someone who refers to women as products its clear you don't know the deen well