Men would you be ok to marry a woman who was intimate with anther man for your first marriage?

[solo_man]

This would be most likely for the somali girls in the west so guys would you be ok with paying the meher for a woman like this?

 

[Basra]

it depends. Is she F.I.N.E. ????

 

[GemState]

she practiced for you

 

[solo_man]

it depends. Is she F.I.N.E. ????

its not about if she is fine lol strippers are fine so whats your point?

 

[Zahra]

This would be most likely for the somali girls in the west so guys would you be ok with paying the meher for a woman like this?

Why not just say a woman who isn't a Virgin. Your wording it with caution.

 

[solo_man]

Why not just say a woman who isn't a Virgin. Your wording it with caution.

no im talking about a woman who done other stuff but still virgin

 

[Zahra]

no im talking about a woman who done other stuff but still virgin

Ahh okay I see, your wording leaves room to assume she's not a virgin. I mean if he's aware of her past and still accepts her then that's his decision. Maybe that was her past, and everyone has a past so it would be unfair to judge her and not be interested in marrying her due to her past behavior which she probably has changed and is now different .

 

[Basra]

no im talking about a woman who done other stuff but still virgin

define other stuff

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

It's only fair to have that expectation if you weren't doing a madness yourself. You forfeit your right to demand a chaste woman the moment you commit zina

 

[Jungle]

no im talking about a woman who done other stuff but still virgin

unacceptable. a virgin headmouth is just as bad as a straight up hoe in my book.

Imagine finding out later on your wife done sucked off a gang of man but its ok cause she was a virgin you got her? you got lethal lipps smh

 

[Boujie]

Likely not, unless its a revert that ascended jahiliyah

 

[solo_man]

It's only fair to have that expectation if you weren't doing a madness yourself. You forfeit your right to demand a chaste woman the moment you commit zina

no its different for man a man marries a woman not the other way round so a man expects a new fresh product

 

[solo_man]

unacceptable. a virgin headmouth is just as bad as a straight up *** in my book.

Imagine finding out later on your wife done sucked off a gang of man but its ok cause she was a virgin you got her? you got lethal lipps smh

thats my point alot of halimos are virgins but suck of many men!

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

no its different for man a man marries a woman not the other way round so a man expects a new fresh product

That's insanely retarded sxb. If zina is morally abhorent to you and you want a chaste girl, don't do it yourself. Glass houses and all of that lol

 

[solo_man]

That's insanely retarded sxb. If you're going to demand a girl who hasn't done scumbag shit, just don't do scumbag shit yourself

well in the community if a man does zina and a girl does zina its worse for the girl thats a fact we can try and pretend its not but a girl will have a bad rep!

You can not tell if a man has been with other women but you can tell if a woman has been with a man

the man is paying the meher so he expects a top notch quality and new

 

[Nak-Muay-Kru]

well in the community if a man does zina and a girl does zina its worse for the girl thats a fact we can try and pretend its not but a girl will have a bad rep!

You can not tell if a man has been with other women but you can tell if a woman has been with a man

the man is paying the meher so he expects a top notch quality and new

So don't pay the mehr if the girl being a virgin/chaste is a prerequisite then lol

 

[Periplus]

It doesn’t really matter, people can change.

We shouldn’t judge people on their dembi as they probably made tawbah.

If Allah has moved past their transgressions, who are you to have an issue with it.

 

[Saredo]

That's insanely retarded sxb. If zina is morally abhorent to you and you want a chaste girl, don't do it yourself. Glass houses and all of that lol

Double standards. These men should be avoided.

@solo_man have some shame. Before thinking about mehr focus on akhlaaq. Also Allah swt makes no distinctions. Zina is haram for both. You should care about what Allah says more than the community. Man expects fresh product kulaha. Iska amuus

 

[Angelina]

So don't pay the mehr if the girl being a virgin/chaste is a prerequisite then lol

I think his use of the words 'product' 'fresh' and 'quality' should tell you everything.

Also, clearly he thinks a £1-5k mehr means he is buying goods. Its akin to him buying new trainers or laptops. So of course, the past of the owner means nothing compared to that of the past of the actual 'product' that is being bought.

With that sort of mentality, there is no reasoning with him.

 

[liftbrah]

a good amount of hijabis/muslims give head/have sex in uni, you're miskeen if you otherwise.

they're most likely going to not tell you because they know guys like you are serious about it.