In defense of my cousin Idol, there's a famous hadith narrated by Aisha (radiyallaahu-anhaa): I said, 'O Allaah's Messenger! Suppose you landed in a valley where there is a tree of which something has been eaten and then you found trees of which nothing has been eaten, of which tree would you let your camel graze?' He said: 'I will let my camel graze of the one of which nothing has been eaten before.' The sub narrator added: Aisha meant that Allaah's Messenger (sallal-laahu-alayhi-wasallam) had not married a virgin besides herself.
Also, In Sahih al-Bukhari of the hadith of Jaabir, it states that when he got married, the Prophet (saw) asked him if he married a virgin or a non-virgin. He replied that she was a non-virgin. The Prophet (saw) then told him, “Why didn’t you marry a virgin [from among the young women who stay in seclusion] such that you may ‘kiss with her.’”
Another hadith, "while we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear he had with him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see. Behold! The rider was the Prophet himself. He said, ‘What makes you in such a hurry?” I replied, I am newly married ” He said, “Did you marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, “A matron.” He said, “Why didn’t you marry a young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?” When we were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet said, “Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region.\
Not saying you shouldn't marry a non-virgin/ garob but you guys are leaving out the part where some of the Prophet marriages were mainly to forge alliances with tribes.
Marry the virgin my friends.obamadatazz
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