Bro. All due respect but often times a lot of you brothers think its okay to harass and disrespect a Somali gabar and your rationale is similar to those of rapists who have convinced themselves that their victims wanted to engage in sexual activities with them - or their sympathisers who shun the victim for dressing immodestly and thus bringing about the crime on herself. For you the rationale seems to be that a sister's double standards (if it even exists at all remains to be proven) justifies our lacking sympathy for her. Some even for so far as punishing our women for those assumed double standards.
At the end of the day, this gabar did not deserve to have her evening ruined by three thirsty grown men. How can three grown men even tolerate themselves being in that position. Wallahi if one of my friend was driving around doing this kind of thing, I don't think we'd be friends any longer. I'd get out of that car and take an Uber home. A lot of us Somali men are straight cowards, when we see a farax doing something inappropriate and straight up disrespectful we're silent. And silence is complicity. If you don't like how a gabar is dressed, thats none of your business bro. Move on, she is not your sister, not your hooyo, and not your wife. She has her own relationship with Allah and the only viable role you can play is to make sincere dua'a for that sister. What you do not do is behave like these three cowards behaved. I can't imagine the fear this gabar must be feeling walking home all alone and being followed by three men. This is disgusting behaviour.
