Marry 14

[Wabari]

I had to get you in here. Where do you guys intend to wed, here in this ferocious land, or back home. And tell me, does it matter to you if your wife is not a virgin.

A word of advice, if you are back home and want to find information on an individual, simply sit with one of the locals (specifically a teenager, preferably a Male). They will spill every last secret. And if you desire the most filthy details, offer them Khat or a few crumpled bills. They will betray their own for the slightest temptation.

But I must return to my original question, how, and where, do you plan to secure a marriage. I had once considered returning home, taking a bride, and leaving her there. But then I learned a dark tale. A American truck driver’s wife, was getting her cheeks clapped by some Bajaaj Driver. A Bajaaj driver! The humiliation of it. To be cuckolded by such a Bajaaj lay. No. Hell Nah.

And why marry just to leave her rotting in Africa for years? I know a guy who goes back home every three years, to be fair, he supports them well, and his wives (the two I know) already have a bunch of kids. This is an uncle we're talking about. And I know stories where it backfired, bringing their wife’s here but that’s for another time.

 

[balanbalis]

What is the ‘Marry 14’ referring to?

 

[Wabari]

What is the ‘Marry 14’ referring to?

“Men’s Cave”

 

[balanbalis]

“Men’s Cave”

I’ve posted on Women’s den and had 4 men reply and 0 women….

Stop dodging my question.

 

[novanova]

I will never understand why people marry ppl back home and then leave them there, do you not want to have a normal family life ? Spend time with your kids? With your wife? A normal relationship?

 

[_Yusuf_]

I’ve posted on Women’s den and had 4 men reply and 0 women….

Stop dodging my question.

I got perma banned from womens den.

 

[Wabari]

I got perma banned from womens den.

Can’t even Question the Faraxs this is a matriarchy!

 

[Bari]

If money wasnt an issue id marry back home and do volunteer work

 

[_Yusuf_]

Can’t even Question the Faraxs this is a matriarchy!

Being verbal banned is fair enough but I wish the mods could let me react. Granted I don't go to that sub forum all that much.

 

[mr.overeasy]

I had to get you in here. Where do you guys intend to wed, here in this ferocious land, or back home. And tell me, does it matter to you if your wife is not a virgin.

A word of advice, if you are back home and want to find information on an individual, simply sit with one of the locals (specifically a teenager, preferably a Male). They will spill every last secret. And if you desire the most filthy details, offer them Khat or a few crumpled bills. They will betray their own for the slightest temptation.

But I must return to my original question, how, and where, do you plan to secure a marriage. I had once considered returning home, taking a bride, and leaving her there. But then I learned a dark tale. A American truck driver’s wife, was getting her cheeks clapped by some Bajaaj Driver. A Bajaaj driver! The humiliation of it. To be cuckolded by such a Bajaaj lay. No. Hell Nah.

And why marry just to leave her rotting in Africa for years? I know a guy who goes back home every three years, to be fair, he supports them well, and his wives (the two I know) already have a bunch of kids. This is an uncle we're talking about. And I know stories where it backfired, bringing their wife’s here but that’s for another time.

The based answer is to marry back home after moving there, america is not in a good spot rn and honestly it would be awesome to move to somalia.

 

[3LetterzMM]

I'm not against marrying back home but if I did I'd have to bring her here no way in hell I'm living in Africa and what's the point of having a wife that's in a different country I need dat pussy available to me on demand but realistically I'll probably end up marrying in the diaspora I'm just too westernized for the people back home I doubt we would get along or share any interests the marriage would suck for us both the sex would be the only good part of it.

Virginity isn't a deal breaker for me but it depends on a lot of factors like how much bodies who did she fukk how in love am I with her and how much of my other boxes does she tick. If she's an otherwise solid option and she didn't sleep with anyone I personally know I can overlook a couple bodies cuz honestly I'm really not one to judge anyways.

 

[Kisame]

I will never understand why people marry ppl back home and then leave them there, do you not want to have a normal family life ? Spend time with your kids? With your wife? A normal relationship?

Bro there was another guy on here last year that spoke about wanting to leave his wife in Africa while he worked in America.

When it comes to marriage I believe some Somali men have no interest in building a happy relationship with their partner. They just want to have sex and have babies.

"Spend time with your kids?"

A lot of men want to have kids but have no interest in actually raising them. Especially men who are super traditional. They consider it the wife's duty.

 

[Kisame]

The based answer is to marry back home after moving there, america is not in a good spot rn and honestly it would be awesome to move to somalia.

My uncle married a chick from back home right after he graduated college. He brought her to America as soon as he could. They've been happily married for over a decade.

 

[zesocialanimal]

What is the ‘Marry 14’ referring to?

Yeah I’m also confused

 

[balanbalis]

Yeah I’m also confused

You’re a man, ask him and he might give you an answer

 

[NidarNidar]

You’re a man, ask him and he might give you an answer

I assume he wants to marry a 14-year-old back home, you need to be assertive in these sort of things, he will either deny it or be silent.