Marriages in west don't last long simple reason is love is not built upon deen it all starts of with haram

[solo_man]

This is really sad state of affairs you hear couples get married all smiles at weddings and happiness, then within a year they part ways let me be clear im not saying their are not successful marriages but its rare

The main factor is lack of deen knowing the rights of the husband and wife this should be taught before people get married

They go into it with lust and emotions marriage is not easy it requires patience on both sides and commitment our parents had alot of these traits which are very vital to keep the marriage going.

Its easy to be happy on the wedding day but what happens when reality sets in after the honeymoon? when you have a human being to deal with who you will see everyday and their true colours come out everyone will try to show you their good side ,if they don't fear allah they most for sure will not fear you and give you your rights. That's why my advise to my brothers and sisters go for someone who fears allah then they will give you your rights...

 

[Amk]

Ppl start their marriages like its a party
Loads of food
Music
Freemixing
Showing your dolled up wife to the entire ceremony

 

[solo_man]

Ppl start their marriages like its a party
Loads of food
Music
Freemixing
Showing your dolled up wife to the entire ceremony

yes really said not only that they probaly even did zina before

 

[Sigala]

You need to get to know who you are about to marry, talk about everything that is necessary for your marriage to work, your future spouse needs to be on the deen because if your not than that could play a part in divorce same as your sex life. Its also important to do some digging about your spouse that's why i want to marry a somali so my mum can get the load down for all we know he could be a rapist.

 

[Basra]

 

[Basra]

This is really sad state of affairs you hear couples get married all smiles at weddings and happiness, then within a year they part ways let me be clear im not saying their are not successful marriages but its rare

The main factor is lack of deen knowing the rights of the husband and wife this should be taught before people get married

They go into it with lust and emotions marriage is not easy it requires patience on both sides and commitment our parents had alot of these traits which are very vital to keep the marriage going.

Its easy to be happy on the wedding day but what happens when reality sets in after the honeymoon? when you have a human being to deal with who you will see everyday and their true colours come out everyone will try to show you their good side ,if they don't fear allah they most for sure will not fear you and give you your rights. That's why my advise to my brothers and sisters go for someone who fears allah then they will give you your rights...

Xaliimo's motivation is get rid of the virginity first so i can have R.E.A.L fun.


The Farah...obviously as always is clueless

 

[solo_man]

Xaliimo's motivation is get rid of the virginity first so i can have R.E.A.L fun.


The Farah...obviously as always is clueless

hahaha lol that explains why they go crazy after marriage and do zina even more

 

[Basra]

hahaha lol that explains why they go crazy after marriage and do zina even more

u could be generous and hit the laughing emoticom nayaa

 

[Basra]

@solo_man No! I Said laughing emoticom or at least heart emoti

 

[KobeBryant]

Xaliimo's motivation is get rid of the virginity first so i can have R.E.A.L fun.


The Farah...obviously as always is clueless

Elaborate Basra

 

[Basra]

Elaborate Basra

Kobe dear, what is there to elaborate? Somali Society has put a stink value on Virginity. Therefore, it is natural for the clever Xaliimo to guard it, go thru the halal route, and then divorce to begin the fun. Sometimes that is a major motivation for marriage. I want to have fun, but i can't because if i lose it the haraam way, i have a scarlet letter RED?

or sometimes i want a child so i can get free housing. We are no different from dumb african americans in this last motivation of getting govt freebies

 

[KobeBryant]

Kobe dear, what is there to elaborate? Somali Society has put a stink value on Virginity. Therefore, it is natural for the clever Xaliimo to guard it, go thru the halal route, and then divorce to begin the fun. Sometimes that is a major motivation for marriage. I want to have fun, but i can't because if i lose it the haraam way, i have a scarlet letter RED?

or sometimes i want a child so i can get free housing. We are no different from dumb african americans in this last motivation of getting govt freebies

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[Amk]

Kobe dear, what is there to elaborate? Somali Society has put a stink value on Virginity. Therefore, it is natural for the clever Xaliimo to guard it, go thru the halal route, and then divorce to begin the fun. Sometimes that is a major motivation for marriage. I want to have fun, but i can't because if i lose it the haraam way, i have a scarlet letter RED?

or sometimes i want a child so i can get free housing. We are no different from dumb african americans in this last motivation of getting govt freebies

noone is having kids for free housing unless they r crazy

 

[Deekhow]

noone is having kids for free housing unless they r crazy

She knows a whole lot of Somali demograph that I'm sure you don't. Check Somalis on the section 8.