Marriage isn't that great as they talk about it

[John Michael]

No I didn't mean health benefits, I meant health care, since your spouse is eligible for your insurance.

Can you explain what the risks are though?

Ooooh there was a study I read that married men are healthier than single and especially divorced men whereas for women it was the opposite. I thought you meant that.

In Canada you can have your girlfriend/boyfriend on your health insurance as long as you've been living with them for a certain number of years (I think 2?) so I see why gallos are over marriage.

Yeah the financial risks are huge...... women are not as ruthless and they're often the ones to put their jobs on the back burner for family. If they do get divorce most men don't even want 50/50 custody and the woman has to shoulder the full/most responsibility for the children. It's why it's mostly women and children who live below the poverty line.

 

[Hailu]

Then don't get married.

The Somali society has made choices privileges so, it's their choice to respect mine. I don't want every hoyo to ask me to get married and I have to keep explaining. Maybe I need to start recording and just hand them one minute recording.

 

[John Michael]

Why don't people like you and OP stay away from people who intend on marriage?

I'm married but I'm also living on planet earth and not everything is roses and chocolate hunny.

 

[Lilafrombole]

Who cares about marriage material, you need enough one night stands to build your confidence. Believe me it took years before I approached a Somali girl because they terrified me. Foreign women are just better and much easier to talk to. I have a rule and that is give a girl 3 days before we have sex and if she doesn't then I cut all attention from her. Time is important to me and I don't waste any.

Men like you give other men bad names. You can't get a decent women even if you tired that why you buy it.

Try to make us believe you CHOOSE not to get married...boy bye

 

[Gambar]

Ooooh there was a study I read that married men are healthier than single and especially divorced men whereas for women it was the opposite. I thought you meant that.

In Canada you can have your girlfriend/boyfriend on your health insurance as long as you've been living with them for a certain number of years (I think 2?) so I see why gallos are over marriage.

Yeah the financial risks are huge...... women are not as ruthless and they're often the ones to put their jobs on the back burner for family. If they do get divorce most men don't even want 50/50 custody and the woman has to shoulder the full/most responsibility for the children. It's why it's mostly women and children who live below the poverty line.

That's why safety nets are geared towards women and their children.

I agree with you, I'd go even further and say that marriage is a big risk for women when it comes to having children. It's a big risk to your body, your health, and your career that's why women get passed up for promotions and you don't see too many women CEOs.

 

[Hailu]

Men like you give other men bad names. You can't get a decent women even if you tired that why you buy it.

Try to make us believe you CHOOSE not to get married...boy bye

I only slept with one escort in France on a holiday so, don't judge me like I do it every weekend. Sleeping with any woman if you are decent looking and good at social scales is easy. I can't believe faraxs are getting married when western women are s. They are just easy.

 

[GodKnowsBest]

I only slept with one escort in France on a holiday so, don't judge me like I do it every weekend. Sleeping with any woman if you are decent looking and good at social scales is easy. I can't believe faraxs are getting married when western women are s. They are just easy.

Because not everyone is ty scum like you. If marriage was solely for having sex nobody would do it. If you died right now I can tell you with absolute certianty you would go to hell with this mindset.

 

[Mercury]

I only slept with one escort in France on a holiday so, don't judge me like I do it every weekend. Sleeping with any woman if you are decent looking and good at social scales is easy. I can't believe faraxs are getting married when western women are s. They are just easy.

Because those Faraaxs they stick to their religion and save it for marriage

And since the girls are easy s what does that make you who give in so easily

 

[jugjugwacwac]

If you are religious then get married. If you care about social status within your community then get married. If you want children and want to give them to the best chance at being happy and well-adjusted then get married. If you are afraid of being alone at an old age then get married.

If you don't care about any of these things, than I can see why marriage would be pointless.

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

The only time I can see myself settling down in the west is if I can find a girl that I can pay to impregnate and pay her to have the child then she goes her merry way.

 

[jugjugwacwac]

Marrying in the West, with the current court system, is a huge risk for men.

 

[Lilafrombole]

I only slept with one escort in France on a holiday so, don't judge me like I do it every weekend. Sleeping with any woman if you are decent looking and good at social scales is easy. I can't believe faraxs are getting married when western women are s. They are just easy.

Wow...it really is a loss for Somali women you have chosen to forsake them for "Western Women"

 

[Hades]

Over 50% percent of marriages end in divorce within 1 year....

Half of married couples worldwide divorce in a year? Stats? I'm sure you pulled this out of your ass

 

[YoungFarah]

Bro a girl isn't just going to merry you out of nowhere but I advice you to first practice on foreign girls. It's much easier. I lost my virginity to this cute mixed girl when I was 16. Who the hell do you think is going to merry you a girl? This is the west not Somalia so, your parents can't do anything for you.

I would do all of that if I didn't have a religious block blocking me from it. I see nothing wrong with having sex before marriage but there's this block that has been ingrained in me about going to hell. I guess it's marriage or secret marriage for me.

 

[VixR]

Marriage isn't for everyone. By all means, pursue your path and don't get married. Your complaint on relatives constantly bickering with you on the issue is a communal thing. Anyone who strays from the norms is gonna recieve some backlash, so there's really nothing you can due about that except block it out

 

[supz]

Marriage isn't for everyone. By all means, pursue your path and don't get married. Your complaint on relatives constantly bickering with you on the issue is a communal thing. Anyone who strays from the norms is gonna recieve some backlash, so there's really nothing you can due about that except block it out

Definitely. i don't think that id be able to live with a wife. i'd be so fucking annoyed . i think that certain personalities just do not mesh with all forms of civil partnerships.

 

[fox]

Marriage isn't for everyone. By all means, pursue your path and don't get married. Your complaint on relatives constantly bickering with you on the issue is a communal thing. Anyone who strays from the norms is gonna recieve some backlash, so there's really nothing you can due about that except block it out

 

[VixR]

Definitely. i don't think that id be able to live with a wife. i'd be so fucking annoyed . i think that certain personalities just do not mesh with all forms of civil partnerships.

Yep. Pressuring someone into a civil union and fatherhood is incredibly shortsighted. He's only going to make any children and wife he has very miserable indeed, not to mention himself.

 

[Yahya Liban-Lewis]

Marriage isn't for everyone. By all means, pursue your path and don't get married. Your complaint on relatives constantly bickering with you on the issue is a communal thing. Anyone who strays from the norms is gonna recieve some backlash, so there's really nothing you can due about that except block it out

Do you plan on getting married?

Even to a Somali?

 

[Hailu]

Half of married couples worldwide divorce in a year? Stats? I'm sure you pulled this out of your ass

I did an average between first marriage and 2nd marriage and it's over 50% percent.