Marriage age!!!

What is the best age to get married? I heard some somali people say 18-20 yrs but other says until late 20s to early 30s but what u guys think is the best age for marriage?
 
Horta people need to understand that marriage is calaf. Recently bumped into a friend who has been trying to get married since she was 21. It’s not happened for her yet. You can come up with an ideal age, but if it isn’t written for you, it isn’t written.

Marry when you meet the right person. It could be very early 20s, mid 20s or late 20s and for some, early 30s. Just make dua that Allah helps you find a spouse that cools your eyes and heart as soon as you’re ready. That’s half the battle.
 

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Horta people need to understand that marriage is calaf. Recently bumped into a friend who has been trying to get married since she was 21. It’s not happened yet for her. You can come up with an ideal age, but if it isn’t written for you, it isn’t written.

Marry when you meet the right person. Good luck InshaAllah.

How old is she now?
 
Horta people need to understand that marriage is calaf. Recently bumped into a friend who has been trying to get married since she was 21. It’s not happened for her yet. You can come up with an ideal age, but if it isn’t written for you, it isn’t written.

Marry when you meet the right person. It could be very early 20s, mid 20s or late 20s and for some, early 30s. Just make dua that Allah helps you find a spouse that cools your eyes and heart as soon as you’re ready. That’s half the battle.
I agree with you it’s up to Allah but why u always qashin my comment 😭 this is xasidnimo
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For me i would like to marry young the only problem is need to be on my A1 game and would need to find the right one. I like the idea of marrying young and walking through life together. Its just unfortunate that a lot of young adults are emotionally stunted.
 
For me i would like to marry young the only problem is need to be on my A1 game and would need to find the right one. I like the idea of marrying young and walking through life together. Its just unfortunate that a lot of young adults are emotionally stunted.
A lot of people that I know married young, married their highschool or Uni sweetheart. Sometimes you just know that someone is for you. I know couples that married at 18. They simply knew.
 

A Mean Guy

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I want to get married young but I also have financial goals that might be disrupted. A lot of the young people that married around me, threw a massive expensive wedding and couldn't even last 2 years together.
Late 20s seems like a nice age to get married. You have matured as a person and have worked a couple of years.
 
From a man's perspective, the best age is when one is mature enough, able to support oneself, and ready to take on the responsibility of being a man, a husband, a father, and is no longer concerned with lighter things in life i.e. chilling with mates etc. I see many immature young men rushing into marriage out of mere expectation only to dash out in no time.

Once one knows as to whom one is, one could then be one to another.
 
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When you move outta hooyo's basement & got bare lacaag that's best time to get married that got no age requirement after 18 it's just where you are at life.
 
When you move outta hooyo's basement & got bare lacaag that's best time to get married that got no age requirement after 18 it's just where you are at life.
What if you could move out, with a few quids to pay rent, yet still want to chill with your mates through the weekend plus evenings, but with a wife, and possibly a child, waiting for you at home. Would you still consider getting married?
 
It’s probably better to have a girl to support you while you’re in your early 20s. It clears your mind because you’re no longer incel and have a bit more structure and motivation to pursue your goals. Having kids at that age will force you to get serious and become a man for real.

Marriage is hard and comes off as a crazy commitment so I think that’s why people opt for zina instead. You could also monkmaxx and forget about that stuff while you level up. You’d probably gain leverage if you entered a relationship because you’re comfortable being single due to that period of celibacy.

But if you’re religious and avoid zina you’ll be late 20s and looking for women/entering marriage with out any experience whatsoever. This could lead to inceldom or messing up marriages early on due to low experience/marrying a trash woman (poor judgement)

Marrying young for the purpose of halal relationship is the best way Islamically but I’ll stick to monkmaxxing
 
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As long as you have a pulse I suppose marriage is on the table. Some people are even serial offenders. Ladies if anyone ever tells you its over. Let them know that some middle age habos are on their third marriage. :deadrose: While you are a blank slate. :manny: The only thing you have to worry about is your fertility. Otherwise there are no issues with aging when you have melanin and a consistently thin frame.​
 
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