Marital rape

Is it rape?


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Why rape isnt laughing matter the wife have to give consent to husband if not and he forces himself on her it is rape
Do think it not rape mens tht Force themselfs on woman who aren't their wife's a rape if yes then in marriage same apply
Mr broken English waan ka helay lol❤
 

Mercury

Ha igu daalinee dantaada raac
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You need to wake up and smell the coffee instead of petty insults/assumptions, no man is going to stay with a woman who isn’t giving him his right.
:francis:

bought* secondly, no woman wants a broke man and we pay meher so technically yes, we do buy wives.
:mjhaps:
Mehr is not about buying your wife The prophet (PBUH) said that families should choose grooms based on their deen and character and not based on the amount of Mehr

In essence, Mehr is simply a wedding gift that the groom gifts to his future wife so you ain't buying her
 
Mehr is not about buying your wife The prophet (PBUH) said that families should choose grooms based on their deen and character and not based on the amount of Mehr

In essence, Mehr is simply a wedding gift that the groom gifts to his future wife you ain't buying her
I think meher is dowry and alimony for the when divorce comes the. She can support herself with tht money also be gift at same I think woman has right to ask what a how much meher she want but I agree with you meher isn't meant to buy woman
 
Mehr is not about buying your wife The prophet (PBUH) said that families should choose grooms based on their deen and character and not based on the amount of Mehr

In essence, Mehr is simply a wedding gift that the groom gifts to his future wife you ain't buying her
These materialistic leeches, who want to suck your pockets dry are not the same as women from the prophet’s time.
 
Nobody normal actually rapes their spouse and only the worst SJW’s would claim otherwise.

How a couple becomes intimate is something they work out. This is a cultural issue not a legal one.

If every man wrestled his wife to bed society would collapse in one generation, and we’re going as Muslims a thousand+ years strong. This is a very dumb argument.
 
Nobody normal actually rapes their spouse and only the worst SJW’s would claim otherwise.

How a couple becomes intimate is something they work out. This is a cultural issue not a legal one.

If every man wrestled his wife to bed society would collapse in one generation, and we’re going as Muslims a thousand+ years strong. This is a very dumb argument.

Sexual abuse, along with other abuses happen. If a man hits, disrespects and does all sorts of things to his wife, what makes you think he will not rape her?

Some men are just abusive and toxic.
 
So you don't believe its rape
I believe you are trying to pigeon hole me into some answer to make yourself look morally superior. Lakin you are biased from the western female perspective. Rape is rape obviously. If your wife is randomly refusing your right's. Get a more obedient second wife. No need for the drama
 
Sexual abuse, along with other abuses happen. If a man hits, disrespects and does all sorts of things to his wife, what makes you think he will not rape her?

Some men are just abusive and toxic.
What do you say about a lot of women lacking in terms of choosing a good partner. For example in another thread plenty of women were talking about liking "bad boys" and to no one's surprise they end up shitty, could this be one a reason why a lot of women end up with terrible men?
 

Karim

I could agree with you but then we’d both be wrong
HALYEEY
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Forcing yourself onto someone without their consent is shameful in my book. But I heard wives consistently use sex as weapon and withhold it to tame their husbands. "If you don't do what I have asked of you then no sex for month etc"... That's disgusting, they do it all the time without fearing retribution. I believe you should not put up with such petty acts from your wife. Give her strict warning not to weaponize sex else she will lose you. Don't rape her under any circumstances though.
 

Karim

I could agree with you but then we’d both be wrong
HALYEEY
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Forcing yourself onto someone without their consent is shameful in my book. But I heard wives consistently use sex as weapon and withhold it to tame their husbands. "If you don't do what I have asked of you then no sex for month etc"... That's disgusting, they do it all the time without fearing retribution. I believe you should not put up with such petty acts from your wife. Give her strict warning not to weaponize sex else she will lose you. Don't rape her under any circumstances though.
There's an article on Huffington post that makes you detest this practice of weaponizing sex consistently used by some women:

Some excerpts from the article. Read it.
A couple of nights ago my husband and I were hanging out with some married friends of ours when we got on the subject of sex. One of our friends remarked that because her husband had been "good" all week she'd have sex with him that night. We all laughed and chalked it up to "the old married life" but it got me thinking: when did sex become a tool to get what you want out of your spouse? Did this happen all the time?
If I wasn't "in the mood" was I inadvertently punishing my husband? Needless to say as the conversation continued, I was confused. Some of the wives at the table reasoned that sex had to earned by their husbands. Ultimately, if their husbands were "well behaved" they would be rewarded with sex.
The husbands chimed in and despite them hating this power play, they went along with it to get their wives to "put out." As we continued the discussion, I realized quickly that sex is used as a weapon and reward in relationships. It gives the person with the decision (usually the wife) the power and can be used to leverage men into doing what us women want them to do.

(FULL ARTICLE).
 
In Islam it’s clear that a wife can refuse if she’s sick or on her period, other than that, she has to put out.
:kanyeshrug:


Do not lie about islam,


she has the right to refuse if she is not even sick or for whatever reason

however, if she is not sick and has no excuse like period, the husband has changed religion etc and thus refuses, the angels curse her until the husband is happy with her

so lets not make things up, lets not misquote the hadith and take it out of context warya
 
consent , consent , consent
we are human beings . if we are not having it a certain night . then its a no .
and it works vise versa
 

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