Marital rape

[Dooyo]

There's an article on Huffington post that makes you detest this practice of weaponizing sex consistently used by some women:

Some excerpts from the article. Read it.
A couple of nights ago my husband and I were hanging out with some married friends of ours when we got on the subject of sex. One of our friends remarked that because her husband had been "good" all week she'd have sex with him that night. We all laughed and chalked it up to "the old married life" but it got me thinking: when did sex become a tool to get what you want out of your spouse? Did this happen all the time?
If I wasn't "in the mood" was I inadvertently punishing my husband? Needless to say as the conversation continued, I was confused. Some of the wives at the table reasoned that sex had to earned by their husbands. Ultimately, if their husbands were "well behaved" they would be rewarded with sex.
The husbands chimed in and despite them hating this power play, they went along with it to get their wives to "put out." As we continued the discussion, I realized quickly that sex is used as a weapon and reward in relationships. It gives the person with the decision (usually the wife) the power and can be used to leverage men into doing what us women want them to do.

(FULL ARTICLE).

Redirect Notice

Wow. That's sad and effed up. Is intercourse not in the least bit enjoyable for these women?

 

[Karim]

Wow. That's sad and effed up. Is intercourse not in the least bit enjoyable for these women?

It's enjoyable but they know their partners want it more than them. So they use it as a weapon to control their men. When sex is used to make war rather than to make love, the effects can be devastating for men.

 

[KingSomali999]

rape is dif not ok even if she’s your wife. when i hear rape i basically imagine a guy forcibly having sex with a women even if she’s fighting back. i’m pretty sure that’s not what Allah was justifying when it comes to a wife refusing sex

 

[codewebsduh]

Yes its rape....

 

[Regg]

If you’re horny and feel the need to release the urge but she says no despite being fully healthy then you don’t deserve her because it shows that she doesn’t care nor want to fulfil your desires in a halal manner.

Divorce and make dua to find someone who gets horny all the time. That’s the point if getting married...women like that have no shame.

 

[Abdalla]

A girl told me she use to say she's not in the mood to her ex husband, but her ex used a tiny little bit of force, nothing major like beating, just a tiny little bit of force. To my surprise she told me she liked that.

 

[Aurelian]

If your wife is randomly refusing your right's. Get a more obedient second wife. No need for the drama

This thread is about those who force themselves when the wife refuses.

 

[Calaf]

No need to force yourself on her. If this issue is persistent, there are many other fishes in the sea.

 

[inflorescence]

68 iq meme confirmed

 

[Xaruun]

Is it materialistic for a women to want her husband to earn at least 50,000-60,000 a year?

Depends on why she wants him to earn that much. If she wants financial stability for her kids then that’s one thing, but if she just wants to waste his money on random bs then she’s a materialistic pos.

 

[abyssinia]

these somali men are showing how disgusting they rlly are...

 

[Hali]

these somali men are showing how disgusting they rlly are...

Dudu?

 

[abyssinia]

Dudu?

its a song

 

[Dalalos_ibn_Adali]

I urge you all to get married first and stop chatting shit, more time you will get raped by your wife