Man with stupid marriage preferences

[DangerBadan]

 

[ina-cilmi]

brudda probably used that as an excuse so he didnt have to confront her abt something he actually didnt like lol

 

[Odious Delirium]

Can't blame him I have the same preference although not exactly a dealbreaker for me anyways stats back the preference aswell and many ladies also have this preference like @Sophisticate

it's not a "stupid" preference if you want a lasting marriage.

The statistics vary, but one study by researchers Paul Amato and Danelle Deboer indicated that if a woman's parents divorced, her odds of divorce increased 69%, while if both a husband and wife's parents divorced, the risk of divorce increased by 189%.

Aswell as

 

[Lebron James]

Theres no such thing as stupid preferences, everybody has the right to want to choose exactly what they want from their future partner.

 

[𝕃𝕠𝕣𝕕 𝕋𝕙𝕣𝕖𝕤𝕙]

ABSURD this is demographic warfare!

 

[cooli3o]

I don't see a problem

 

[Sophisticate]

Can't blame him I have the same preference although not exactly a dealbreaker for me anyways stats back the preference aswell and many ladies also have this preference like @Sophisticate

it's not a "stupid" preference if you want a lasting marriage.

The statistics vary, but one study by researchers Paul Amato and Danelle Deboer indicated that if a woman's parents divorced, her odds of divorce increased 69%, while if both a husband and wife's parents divorced, the risk of divorce increased by 189%.

Aswell as

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I don't think there is anything wrong with preferences. I feel like we use filter strategies as a preventative measure to insulate ourselves from negative outcomes. It doesn't mean we think people should be condemned because their parents parted ways. I think temperament is something to look at in tandem with family formation. I generally prefer the marriage outlook of brothers who have two parents in the home. They seem really keen on wanting to make things work and optimistic about a more fruitful marital outcome. I like that. It's also the reason I stay away from divorced men. I like similarity in life experience.
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[Bundasliga]

Instead of getting butthurt ,you women should also avoid boys who grew up without a father when y'all had an active good father .

 

[Yaraye]

Instead of getting butthurt ,you women should also avoid boys who grew up without a father when y'all had an active good father .

so you're saying those without fathers should end up with each other?

 

[Bundasliga]

so you're saying those without fathers should end up with each other?

Indeed

 

[Dualke]

so you're saying those without fathers should end up with each other?

No you should get with someone who has an active father in their life if you can no point limiting yourself

 

[Hargeysa]

You can tell which users grew up in a single parent household by the responses

 

[Keep it a boqol]

if you don’t have preferences you don’t have standards which mean you don’t have self respect or self worth

 

[Man with a garuun]

It is not her fault that her parents were divorced. It is really dumb to end a relationship due to this alone. It is possible that the guy was just looking for an excuse.

 

[cooli3o]

You can tell which users grew up in a single parent household by the responses

I grew up in one but I think the guys conclusion is justified

 

[Diaspora ambassador]

It is not her fault that her parents were divorced. It is really dumb to end a relationship due to this alone. It is possible that the guy was just looking for an excuse.

He wants a spouse that is familiar with the role wife.

She has not seen that in her household.

End of story. Guys are not that emotional about things. If she was some kind of super lady he would have overruled it.

Since she probably ain't, end of story.

Not everything is about "fault" sometimes it is about circumstances.

 

[onthecloud]

Only an uninformed or dumb person would marry a woman with divorced parents with all the studies and grim statistics about them.

 

[Shoop12]

Women with divorced parents may have an unhealthy view on marriage