Man fights back

[ItzDoctorZ]

You're going off topic, this was in relation to men and woman. Woman are obviously the weaker physically.

Now if you pick a fight with another man, who is physically stronger, well
That happens everyday, you picked it
With another man, you know what's
Going to happen. A man won't have
Mercy on you because you're weaker
He'll only see another man challenging
Him.

That's how it is with every living thing.

Touch someone stronger than you > you get hit too.

It's common sense

 

[InfoMatic]

I am not letting myself be abused. I respect myself too much for that to happen. I understand it's different for others but i would rather keep my dignity intact.

Yea bro, keeping the street cred is important. I don't have to worry about that luckily

 

[The Cushitic One]

It's domestic abuse. Nothing sexual about it lmao

No You're confusing what I said. If a man touches a woman inappropriately meaning in a sexual manner.

 

[The Cushitic One]

That's how it is with every living thing.

Touch someone stronger than you > you get hit too.

It's common sense

I hope one day you will change your view point, Insha'Allah

You're masculinity shouldn't feel threatened by a woman, hitting you.

 

[Zeus]

Ima skinny abdi, most of these women are stronger than me so it's fair game

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

Yea bro, keeping the street cred is important. I don't have to worry about that luckily

What does that mean?

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

No You're confusing what I said. If a man touches a woman inappropriately meaning in a sexual manner.

What does that have to do with the topic tho? We're talking domestic abuse...

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

I hope one day you will change your view point, Insha'Allah

You're masculinity shouldn't feel threatened by a woman, hitting you.

You probably think i just go around abusing women, i rarely get into conflict with anyone. I keep myself to myself. So if someone puts their hands on me, i won't just allow that.

 

[The Cushitic One]

What does that have to do with the topic tho? We're talking domestic abuse...

You're acting stupid on purpose aren't you....

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

You're acting stupid on purpose aren't you....

No seriously, what does sexual assault have anything to do with domestic abuse? I mean they do go hand in hand but in this case, we're talking just physical violence. Nothing to do with sex.

 

[The Cushitic One]

You probably think i just go around abusing women, i rarely get into conflict with anyone. I keep myself to myself. So if someone puts their hands on me, i won't just allow that.

Where is all this aggression coming from? You feel you have something to prove?

If a woman hits you walk away, what's the point if she can't fight back? Tell me?

What would you get from it? I'm being
Real with you here wallahi, it would not
Affect your masculinity one bit, you
Walking away would show how manly you are in controlling yourself and showing mercy.

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

Where is all this aggression coming from? You feel you have something to prove?

If a woman hits you walk away, what's the point if she can't fight back? Tell me?

What would you get from it? I'm being
Real with you here wallahi, it would not
Affect your masculinity one bit, you
Walking away would show how manly you are in controlling yourself and showing mercy.

I understand what you're saying but why hit me first then? Is she stupid? Does she not know this? I want to understand what women think when they do this? I just dont get it

 

[The Cushitic One]

No seriously, what does sexual assault have anything to do with domestic abuse? I mean they do go hand in hand but in this case, we're talking just physical violence. Nothing to do with sex.

I stated what if a man touches you're sister inappropriately in a sexual manner and she hit him back as a natural reflex. Does he than have he right to eat the shit out of her? I was using it as an example.

Wallahi I think you're acting stupid now on purpose to annoy me, don't do it. I'm vicious when I'm hungry.

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

I stated what if a man touches you're sister inappropriately in a sexual manner and she hit him back as a natural reflex. Does he than have he right to eat the shit out of her? I was using it as an example.

Wallahi I think you're acting stupid now on purpose to annoy me, don't do it. I'm vicious when I'm hungry.

In that case he initiated the whole thing. Its his fault so no he doesnt have the right. Hed still probably do it anyway if hes assaulting women sexually tho

 

[The Cushitic One]

I understand what you're saying but why hit me first then? Is she stupid? Does she not know this? I want to understand what women think when they do this? I just dont get it

Woman when they get angry, don't think. It's an emotional reaction,
She's not thinking with her head,
If she did she wouldn't touch the
Guy.

Than again she could be thinking
He'd never hit her back!

 

[ItzDoctorZ]

Woman when they get angry, don't think. It's an emotional reaction,
She's not thinking with her head,
If she did she wouldn't touch the
Guy.

Than again she could be thinking
He'd never hit her back!

Ok fine

 

[InfoMatic]

I am not letting myself be abused. I respect myself too much for that to happen. I understand it's different for others but i would rather keep my dignity intact.

I can sum up your take as this:

- You are not the aggressive type and you keep to yourself
- It is unlikely you would intentionally look for a fight


But


- If some female touches you with the intent to hurt you, no holds barred and her gender does not matter because that is protecting your dignity and dishing out a poetic justice.


Granted, no one can argue justice Vs. injustice morally speaking, does it have to be black and white? I think what determines our actions is moored on culture. If you were raised to ignore and give women the benefit of the doubt, or buy them some excuses as much as you can when you are in no dire situation, then you would move away from deepening the conflict with the woman without feeling you compromised your dignity. In a twist, a man who walks away and believes that is the right thing to do feels more dignified whereas some guy who insists on getting justice for himself feels he took revenge.

Which one is better? Dignified or Revenge?

 

[Zeus]

You f*ck with a bull you get the horns
You better believe I would never get into an altercation with a guy twice my size, because I know the outcome

 

[Chinhahsan]

by white whale i meant the one that got away. it was a Moby Dick reference. I am not chasing a white fat man

I don't know these references most of the time.


I made extra prayers that I misunderstood.

The tears on my face have not yet dried.



I shall pursue you until the ends of the Earth. Nothing but the stupor of death or a calamity can stop my advance. Im going to meet your parents and declare them officially my unhindered desire to take your hand in marriage.

I have the gifts ready.

 

[Ubax45_]

Every time this topic comes up this comes to mind. Wallahi idgaf about her trying to do physical damage, but imagine some random woman wrongfully cussing you out and then spits on you. I don't think you should ever put your hands on a woman for talking shit, but what if she gets in your face and spits out a nasty fat loogie with sniper precision? What then? That's a worst case scenario to me. I think a slap into next week at the very least is warranted.




Imo, it's a completely different scenario if it's your gf/wife/sister/friend or whatever. 10x easier to restrain because you know it's either one-time thing or you've actually done something to provoke that kind of response.

Very very rarely will someone hit their partner once.

By Somali tradition you are right. A man never hits a woman for any reason nor does he insult her. The young guys here grew up in different cultures and spent most of their days around others who see women differently. In Somalia, fighting a girl was considered ceeb and unmanly. Insulting her or making her cry was viewed similar and a guy could get ass whipped for doing that. By default, women were right always when it came to conflicts and disputes between them and males. Not so much nowadays in the west and young guys would beat up women at a mere verbal disagreement.

I need receipts for this.