Mama Malyun Confession 101

[Gacmeey]

also maxram men too. Many studies have shown that uncles are the most common culprits. A girl's direct uncle is maxram man is he not? Don't trust with any man, maxram or non-maxram.

I’d definitely include uncles but fathers and grandfathers are alright

 

[Basra]

Islaantaan xanuunsan should not be given a platform, Dahirna waa nacas for doing this.

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You are an example of Toxic Somalis who shuush victim of abuse

 

[Basra]

@Basra Do you know why her son was targeted? She seems to have gone through a lot

She says Caloool sent gangs on her son-- that is Calool as in the limb crippled Dhulbahante infamous piece mouth!



Yet i saw her recent tik tok videos where she is friends with Calool now. He even sent her money several times while in Africa. When she return to US-MN-- Calool refuse to meet with her. No doubt he does not trust her. Perhaps she has a knife to lunge at him. She is unstable

 

[Shaygoosh]

You are an example of Toxic Somalis who shuush victim of abuse

Would you allow a family member of yours to broadcast their trauma on social media or would you suggest they choose therapy ??

 

[Basra]

Would you allow a family member of yours to broadcast their trauma on social media or would you suggest they choose therapy ??

Ideally being private is better but sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture. By Malyun speaking openly- she is removing the stigma, and letting others know they are not alone

 

[Shaygoosh]

Ideally being private is better but sometimes you have to look at the bigger picture. By Malyun speaking opening- she is removing the stigma, and letting others know they are not alone

I think we’re on the same page when it comes to that. I do believe talking through it helps tremendously, irregardless what platform you choose do so.

Teeda kale, I don’t know how anyone would take her seriously because of her troubled past. Nonetheless, waan ku gartay!

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

I know a woman who was repeatedly raped by her brother for years and her mother never believed her. She turned into a mentally ill wreck.

 

[Basra]

I know a woman who was repeatedly raped by her brother for years and her mother never believed her. She turned into a mentally ill wreck.

Horrendous.

 

[mr.overeasy]

Yaraye I'm not denying that it happens just saying it might not be as prevalent as you're making it seem.

It factually can't be too prevalent or it would be common knowledge.

It has to be under 20% or it would be known to happen.

People seem to think taking isolated cases let's them assume it's a cultural norm.

There is no evidence of that.

The lack of evidence cannot be blamed on contrived reasons like "they are afraid" because for it to be anywhere near common it would still be well known by volume of victims alone, and it's again basing itself without evidence.

 

[EyiPunter]

This make a lot of sense now, i was wonder why she spoke as a salor? but its really sad and they need to catch these people like this and throw them in jail. I hope she gets all the help she needs.

 

[Ozymandias]

God bless this habaryar, I'm saddened to hear that she was a victim of child sexual abuse, it must have weighed heavy on heart to disclose this to us, we are humbled

 

[mrlog]

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[wonyluvr]

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Not mine that’s for sure

 

[Farahslayer]

I mean imagine how disgusting/ monstrous many men are that a girl/ woman has to be on guard against her own kin that's supposed to protect her . Plus many of these molesters in our community go after extremely young girls. Commonly under 10 yrs old. These girls are too young to know what's going on or that it's wrong. This ensures silence from the girl and the man getting away with this shit. These memories stay with the girls and when the girl gets older she finally realizes what she went through and knows what word to use.

I mean imagine a victim so young they don't even know the word to use for what they are going through.
May allah throw these monsters (the ones caught and the one not caught) in the depth of jahanam for eternity. May allah have them die in the most painful way. May allah put them through hell both on this dunya and aqirah.

The shaming culture of women exposing these monsters in our community needs to STOP! People will always say "oh, he was a sheikh." "He's a pillar of our community" "oh he's a good man with good deen"
A lot of these monstrous creatures bank on their good rep giving them a way out. Like I said before many "good" men are actually monsters in disguise.

Somali Hooyos are the number one obstacle in protecting children from pedos. They’re against sex education in the west which is the main vehicle that kids learn bodily autonomy and how to speak out on unwanted touch.

They groom their daughters to be maids for unrelated older men and constantly invite qaraabo over giving perverts easy access.

If a girl is brave enough to tell her mother, the vast majority of Hooyos will gaslight their daughter or try to cover it up.