Mama Malyun Confession 101

[Basra]

Mama Malyun feels vindicated. Dahir Alasow gave her the floor to speak her truth of molestation

 

[Yaraye]

molestation is real in our community

 

[Yaraye]

Honestly the amount of stories I hear from women that relatives (especially uncles) touching them/ r-wording them when they were young is insane.

 

[canjeeroiyoshah]

Honestly the amount of stories I hear from women that relatives (especially uncles) trying shit is insane

That's actually crazy wtf, uncles?!?!??!

How sick do you have to be to get kacsi for your nieces acuudubilah.

 

[Shaygoosh]

Islaantaan xanuunsan should not be given a platform, Dahirna waa nacas for doing this.

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[GaradShabeel]

@Basra Do you know why her son was targeted? She seems to have gone through a lot

 

[Yaraye]

That's actually crazy wtf, uncles?!?!??!

How sick do you have to be to get kacsi for your nieces acuudubilah.

uncles are the most common culprit. In fact, so much women have experienced this young or know this, that they warn their young daughters to never be alone in a room their uncle/ father/ cousin/ and even older brother. Imagine your mother warning you about her own brother, your father, your older brother
Many men wear disguises to society but are actually monsters. I won't say "some men" cuz there is actually a lot more in society than you might think. They are just not caught. Some might even be in your own family and you won't even know it. Them knowing that this is incest/ haram will not even stop them

 

[Yaraye]

Islaantaan xanuunsan should not be given a platform, Dahirna waa nacas for doing this.

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wallahi you never know, there might be some truth to it. Many quote on quote "good men" are actually monsters in disguise that haven't been caught yet. And unfortunately may never be caught due to the shame culture in our community

 

[Yaraye]

uncles are the most common culprit. In fact, so much women have experienced this young or know this, that they warn their young daughters to never be alone in a room their uncle/ father/ cousin/ and even older brother. Imagine your mother warning you about her own brother, your father, your older brother
Many men wear disguises to society but are actually monsters. I won't say "some men" cuz there is actually a lot more in society than you might think. They are just not caught. Some might even be in your own family and you won't even know it. Them knowing that this is incest/ haram will not even stop them

I mean imagine how disgusting/ monstrous many men are that a girl/ woman has to be on guard against her own kin that's supposed to protect her . Plus many of these molesters in our community go after extremely young girls. Commonly under 10 yrs old. These girls are too young to know what's going on or that it's wrong. This ensures silence from the girl and the man getting away with this shit. These memories stay with the girls and when the girl gets older she finally realizes what she went through and knows what word to use.

I mean imagine a victim so young they don't even know the word to use for what they are going through.
May allah throw these monsters (the ones caught and the one not caught) in the depth of jahanam for eternity. May allah have them die in the most painful way. May allah put them through hell both on this dunya and aqirah.

The shaming culture of women exposing these monsters in our community needs to STOP! People will always say "oh, he was a sheikh." "He's a pillar of our community" "oh he's a good man with good deen"
A lot of these monstrous creatures bank on their good rep giving them a way out. Like I said before many "good" men are actually monsters in disguise.

 

[canjeeroiyoshah]

I mean imagine how disgusting/ monstrous many men are that a girl/ woman has to be on guard against her own kin that's supposed to protect her . Plus many of these molesters in our community go after extremely young girls. Commonly under 10 yrs old. These girls are too young to know what's going on or that it's wrong. This ensures silence from the girl and the man getting away with this shit. These memories stay with the girls and when the girl gets older she finally realizes what she went through and knows what word to use.

I mean imagine a victim so young they don't even know the word to use for what they are going through.
May allah throw these monsters (the ones caught and the one not caught) in the depth of jahanam for eternity. May allah have them die in the most painful way. May allah put them through hell both on this dunya and aqirah.

The shaming culture of women exposing these monsters in our community needs to STOP! People will always say "oh, he was a sheikh." "He's a pillar of our community" "oh he's a good man with good deen"
A lot of these monstrous creatures bank on their good rep giving them a way out. Like I said before many "good" men are actually monsters in disguise.

Honestly it's a small minority though, I ain't never heard of this shit.

 

[Shaygoosh]

Wallahi Somalis are cruel. It is obvious that this lady needs mental rehabilitation to deal with her past trauma, and her fixation on social media. Ilaahay cafimaadkeeda ha u badbaadiyo.

 

[DubatDiaries]

This is so repulsive. We need to protect children from this shit. I feel so sorry for her

Death by firing squad is the only answer

 

[Yaraye]

Honestly it's a small minority though, I ain't never heard of this shit.

See! this is exactly what I'm talking!
"I've never heard of this shit" you're right and unfortunately you're most likely not gonna hear of it. Our community is so ostracizing of any woman that brings up this issue that it is rare for women to speak up and tell their stories. The ones who are caught publicly are a few while the ones not caught are actually the bigger percentage. This is what makes this issue so terrifying.

 

[canjeeroiyoshah]

See! this is exactly what I'm talking!
"I've never heard of this shit" you're right and unfortunately you're most likely not gonna hear of it. Our community is so ostracizing of any woman that brings up this issue that it is rare for women to speak up and tell their stories. The ones who are caught publicly are a few while the ones not caught are actually the bigger percentage

Yaraye I'm not denying that it happens just saying it might not be as prevalent as you're making it seem.

 

[lanochedeanoche]

uncles are the most common culprit. In fact, so much women have experienced this young or know this, that they warn their young daughters to never be alone in a room their uncle/ father/ cousin/ and even older brother. Imagine your mother warning you about her own brother, your father, your older brother
Many men wear disguises to society but are actually monsters. I won't say "some men" cuz there is actually a lot more in society than you might think. They are just not caught. Some might even be in your own family and you won't even know it. Them knowing that this is incest/ haram will not even stop them

bisinka

 

[lanochedeanoche]

Honestly it's a small minority though, I ain't never heard of this shit.

neither have I, but doesn't mean its not happening/is a small issue

 

[Calaami]

Both those molesting niggas need to be shot in the head

 

[Gacmeey]

Never trust your daughters with non-mahrams

 

[Yaraye]

Never trust your daughters with non-mahrams

also maxram men too. Many studies have shown that uncles are the most common culprits. A girl's direct uncle is maxram man is he not? Don't trust with any man, maxram or non-maxram.

 

[Yaraye]

Yaraye I'm not denying that it happens just saying it might not be as prevalent as you're making it seem.

That's the problem. Its very prevalent. Since the ones caught is a small number and the ones that aren't are actually the bigger number, this issue can camouflage as a minority problem when it really isn't Its this exact camouflaging is what make this problem so scary.