He’s lost in the sauce bro, love is crazy
Mahr
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Yeah but he will learn soon that trust is not easy
Yes love is making folks become to trusting which is not good
He going to learn soon bro
He going to be hurt hurtYes like me it will be unforgettable hurt but he will be wiser for it and enjoy his local girls moreHe going to learn soon bro
Maybe he struggle with girls here since they dont care about his sharci back home girls will flock to him give him attention cause of his passport and with his money they can support their family and all their needs
Most likely.
The girls back home are beautiful and a lot are genuine but the risk is high.
I know this guy who went back home And married this poor girl he stayed a few months than went back to the UK
She called him tell him send me money and he did sometimes he couldnt hear back from her for days only to be called up by her saying I need money
He divorced her after a year and half together and he found out the money he sent her she built a shop and had been giving money to her relatives
From what I can gather he's definitely being finessed no ifs or buts about it.First red flag is your family doesn't know the girls family.If you're going to marry from somalia its best to marry a girl from your tol so its easier for your adeero to mediate if things go wrong.This guy is from xamar tho, where he found this woman is shocking. From Facebook to real life
The other thing is 10k is a hugely unreasonable amount,i wouldnt pay 5k for a girl here let alone in the somalia.Theres guys I know who did the whole ceremony and qaado for 1k and gave 500 or less of mehr,the whole shabang was 2k.I was told that if I spend 3-5k on everything that it will be able afford a lavish wedding, expensive mehr and some money to appease the families
.Another thing is he seems that hes in love with her thats why I feel shes brazen enough to ask for that amount of money.You can never be a simp in somalia or else it will be your biggest downfall, if you witness kibr all the odeys marry another chick to humble the first wife, she realises shes dispensable and becomes grateful for what she has.
All in All,your cousin should definitely drop the chick,i anticipate a messy marriage where he becomes the backbone of not only herself but her whole family.You cannot act like a miskeen in somalia if you're a western kid, you've got to show the girl and the family that you can drop them at any second with no loss of value to yourself and at expense of them losing everything they have.
if you staying in Qurbaha and marry back home than he should go for someone from his tribe
Great point
Yeah less trouble that way
Yeah and that is why it is better that your family knows her family or knows someone who does
the best is marry where you live if you happen to live back home than get married there and if you live in the west get married here simple like that
Yeah less stress plus you can split the cost of the wedding
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For me 1k maximum
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Probably a thousand. Usually their only around 500 but as a diaspora dude naturally they'll expect more from you. So yeah, pretty cheap still
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