Macalin Xaliye explains why you shouldnt marry Qurbo Girls

[TekNiKo]

Thanks for proving my point. Brothers and fathers is not enough. People need legal protection in which they can go to the Qadi. What happens if her brother and father are dead, weak or not around?! What happens if the man refuses? The brother and father would have to fight him which would end up in dire consequences.

Would you feel protected if you couldn't go court but you had go rely only on family members? For things like your house and land ect? No. Marriage is like any other legal institution.

Thanks yet again for proving my point.

Ever heard of the Xeer system? Every family has elders that will fight for their behalf. Unless the father is a scumbag who sells his girl off to the highest bidder he will flex his muscles if his daughter is not happy in the marriage. You underestimate how powerful qabil is back home.

 

[Jaydaan]

So why didn't he bring the Saudi lady but brought the Somalia wife? Whats the diff?

He didn’t bring the Somali. He visit her more often. But he will never bring her to the west.

 

[Angelina]

Ever heard of the Xeer system? Every family has elders that will fight for their behalf. Unless the father is a scumbag who sells his girl off to the highest bidder he will flex his muscles if his daughter is not happy in the marriage. You underestimate how powerful qabil is back home.

Xeer system isn't enough. Somalis also had that for housings and land, yet everyday people are being scammed by their own family members. Where is qabil then? Also, you're forgetting not every woman has a father that is alive or even fit and well. How does a father force a man to pay child support if a man doesn't want to or fear ceeb?

You need courts and Qadis. Order and a formal system in place. You need imprisonment ect. If not there is no protection. Back home, someone can steal your land with no imprisonment. Saxib, even YOU as a man aren't protected and you want to talk to me about women.


Thanks yet again.

 

[Basra]

He didn’t bring the Somali. He visit her more often. But he will never bring her to the west.

He is smart to do that. because Xaliimos will divorce once they are here.

 

[Kane]

Men from traditional backgrounds, are the only ones suffering in the new age.

Due to their outdated beliefs on being the protectors and the providers.

They have solutions to problems that no longer exist.

A women's need for protection and provision have been met in the 21st Century.

The only two areas a woman still needs a man is in her soul and in her mind.

If you can meet those needs a woman will reward you with absolute loyalty and total submission.
( women only submit to their needs and not to men)

No matter where you are in the world.

the only reason I wouldn’t want to marry in the west, is because children are the product of their society.

 

[Magaffe]

I've seen women from back home divorce qurbo men as soon as they can though?

 

[Bundasliga]

Isn't his main audience the faraxs back home ?
Those are the ones who should try to get a qurba joog xalimo...for papers