Lovebombing?

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It has gotten to a point where I tend to fear a lot of praise even if it comes from a good place with no harmful intent.
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It does, different people express themselves to others differently, some dudes play up the romantic act when they’re more chill in terms of persona and some play up the unbothered alpha when they’re more hotheaded.
It’s part of life. I have to act a certain way with my parents, boss, husband, kid ect. It’s called code switching. It’s very naive to think that you can express yourself the same way towards people throughout. Also, in the beginning of a relationship, naturally both men and women will hold back to protect themselves. You call it gynocentric or whatever without taking into account that women do the exact same thing, if not more. We’re judged more for being open as it is seen as not feminine and it can be interpreted as being ‘easy’. Both men and women experience this in different ways. If anything, I’d say the ramifications are worse for women.
 
Is that lovebombing or simply a man-child? I say this because a lot of lovebombers usually have an ulterior motivation which is generally control, whilst some man-children whilst narcissistic simply get bored tbh. It’s usually a quality found in players. That is why consistency is king. Those types of men that get bored easily cannot be consistent and they betray themselves for early on.

Women shouldn’t invest unless the man is constantly consistent and even then, I’d argue the ultimate form of consistency after 6 months to a yr of getting to know someone is a man asking to speak to your father-that is when you know he’s putting his money where his mouth is.
Ooof @Angelina from the top rope. A man child you say... Interesting. However, I disagree with the betraying from early on. Even "you" with your great powers of reading someone else can be betrayed by a lovebomber. I don't even call it lovebombing no more hence the reason why I said expressing passion or a need for control. Some people just need or crave control in a relationship and know exactly what to say/do to mimic the whims of desire their partner craves. A narcissistic chameleon I like to call them. Except the narcissistic personality benefits both parties. The one in control and the one getting what they desire in a relationship.
 
It has gotten to a point where I tend to fear a lot of praise even if it comes from a good place with no harmful intent.
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Oh we both know you fall under the control side. It's my hypothesis as to why you avoid men like me. Two people playing the tango each changing colour like a chameleon, not knowing who will break first.

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It has gotten to a point where I tend to fear a lot of praise even if it comes from a good place with no harmful intent.
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The younger generation are missing the art of moderation. By the way, a lot of young women are craving that jiljileec. That is why lovebombing is dangerous. Very easy for a man to control a woman by showing her excessive love and devotion earlier on and then switch up, which is what usually happens. The girl/woman is left in confusion and stays for a glimpse of that jiljileec as you call it.
It only works on the really young girls maybe 18-21 fob faraxs take the crown when it comes to this shit the older she gets the less she will crave for that jiljileec shit and usually the older women that are into the jiljeleec tend to have come out of a very bad no naxariis relationships which makes them crave and seek that jiljileecness
 
Ooof @Angelina from the top rope. A man child you say... Interesting. However, I disagree with the betraying from early on. Even "you" with your great powers of reading someone else can be betrayed by a lovebomber. I don't even call it lovebombing no more hence the reason why I said expressing passion or a need for control. Some people just need or crave control in a relationship and know exactly what to say/do to mimic the whims of desire their partner craves. A narcissistic chameleon I like to call them. Except the narcissistic personality benefits both parties. The one in control and the one getting what they desire in a relationship.
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It only works on the really young girls maybe 18-21 fob faraxs take the crown when it comes to this shit the older she gets the less she will crave for that jiljileec shit and usually the older women that are into the jiljeleec tend to have come out of a very bad no naxariis relationships which makes them crave and seek that jiljileecness
Lol, you know nothing about women. Every woman wants and craves romance and a man that is very loving. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have a backbone which is why I commented earlier that the younger gen have lost the art of moderation. Their thinking is very black and white. It’s either you’re billa naxaaris man who mocks jiljilaac or you’re jilaac that lacks any sort of assertiveness when needed.

Most woman wants a man that pampers her. It’s why these players and lovebombers are able to get women to do their bidding. The reason why it works on younger women more is because older women can smell bullshit and have experienced the manipulative behavior already. They’re able to identify the signs straight away.
 

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~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Oh we both know you fall under the control side. It's my hypothesis as to why you avoid men like me. Two people playing the tango each changing colour like a chameleon, not knowing who will break first.

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Lol, you know nothing about women. Every woman wants and craves romance and a man that is very loving. That doesn’t mean you shouldn’t have a backbone which is why I commented earlier that the younger gen have lost the art of moderation. Their thinking is very black and white. It’s either you’re billa naxaaris man who mocks jiljilaac or you’re jilaac that lacks any sort of assertiveness when needed.

Most woman wants a man that pampers her. It’s why these players and lovebombers are able to get women to do their bidding. The reason why it works on younger women more is because older women can smell bullshit and have experienced the manipulative behavior already. They’re able to identify the signs straight away.
The majority of victims of that kind of behavior are older women, who, despite their knowledge and experience, still fall for it. I'm not convinced that older women can always detect it and make good judgments. They often let their feelings get the better of them and later suffer the consequences. This is a harsh reality
 
The majority of victims of that kind of behavior are older women, who, despite their knowledge and experience, still fall for it. I'm not convinced that older women can always detect it and make good judgments. They often let their feelings get the better of them and later suffer the consequences. This is a harsh reality
Majority of victims? What studies do you have to show this? It’s a fact that younger women are easily more manipulated. There is no denying that many older women get played, as do older men but it’s usually the young who are more susceptible to this. The older we become the more jaded one becomes.
 
Depends really….narcissistic people go over the top and act obsessed with someone they barely know as a way to rope them in. There is a difference between a guy that is excited about the relationship and puts in effort and a man that is behaving as though he’s in love with you despite not knowing your last name or qabil lol. Oh and lovebombers can’t be consistent even if their lives depends on it. Another sign.
They can be consistent if they have a screw loose and it's kind of funny until they start saying wild shit and then it becomes scary lol. But I haven't actually been "in love" for nearly a decade so I'm practicaly immune to it, let them bomb away :manny:
 
Majority of victims? What studies do you have to show this? It’s a fact that younger women are easily more manipulated. There is no denying that many older women get played, as do older men but it’s usually the young who are more susceptible to this. The older we become the more jaded one becomes.
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~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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I am incapable of love 💣. For starters I'm too lazy to be in a relationship.:wtf: Where do they get the energy from?

Whenever I magically find myself talking to someone I often plot my great escape.
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