Expressing your passion to your new sweetheart or a need for control? Which is it?
Lovebombing?
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SociallyAwkwardFarax
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If she’s hot it’s flattering, if she’s ugly it’s harassment
Depends really….narcissistic people go over the top and act obsessed with someone they barely know as a way to rope them in. There is a difference between a guy that is excited about the relationship and puts in effort and a man that is behaving as though he’s in love with you despite not knowing your last name or qabil lol. Oh and lovebombers can’t be consistent even if their lives depends on it. Another sign.
I find the younger the lovebombed the more susceptible they are to the control. It takes experience to see through the charade. Experience that grants one the time to develop self love and a greater sense of self.a consistent medium
Nah control that shit don't say no jileec shit the moment she smells jiljileec (softness) u are done
What about those who do spend the time getting to know their new significant other. Building up their guage in knowing everything about their other half. Yet at the same time, the more they know the more the dopamine glass gets less full each time. The lovebombing lessens over time until eventually the dreaded boredom kicks in. Then they move onto the next new shiny toy.
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SociallyAwkwardFarax
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Brother, the problem here is that you’re having to self-regulate yourself while she’s allowed to act however - you’ve been possessed by the gynocentric zeitgeist, reject the cuckold programming society’s forced down your skull.
The younger generation are missing the art of moderation. By the way, a lot of young women are craving that jiljileec. That is why lovebombing is dangerous. Very easy for a man to control a woman by showing her excessive love and devotion earlier on and then switch up, which is what usually happens. The girl/woman is left in confusion and stays for a glimpse of that jiljileec as you call it.
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Yeah. But as practicing muslim women, where do we get experience? no where! so we are even more susceptible to this. That's why consistency is important to look at
I don't think you know what lovebombing is saxib. It is the opposite to softness and "jileec shit" as you say. It is a simple touch of knowing how to overwhelm them with what they desire.
Everything needs to be balanced sxb and women are allowed to be that way that's normal it's part of their nature being feminine and all is what makes a women attractive
Keep it a boqol
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I had a girl love bomb me before. Made me suspect she had some mental shit going on. I was right lmao
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Is that lovebombing or simply a man-child? I say this because a lot of lovebombers usually have an ulterior motivation which is generally control, whilst some man-children whilst narcissistic simply get bored tbh. It’s usually a quality found in players. That is why consistency is king. Those types of men that get bored easily cannot be consistent and they betray themselves for early on.
Women shouldn’t invest unless the man is constantly consistent and even then, I’d argue the ultimate form of consistency after 6 months to a yr of getting to know someone is a man asking to speak to your father-that is when you know he’s putting his money where his mouth is.
SociallyAwkwardFarax
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Whether you choose to be tough or soft is your own decision, be yourself authentically; having to change yourself to fit into someone’s preferences is b*tch behaviour.
it's all mind games not a good approach at all and it is jileec because it lowkey makes u seem like her personal entertainer
@Keep it a boqol 💯
Especially early on and it isn’t serious as in trying to get married? Run a mile. She clearly has issues of some sort. Women tend to have a level of pride and a need to see if the men is committed before showing that side of them and if she’s getting clingy towards a man who hasn’t offered any sort of real commitment, that is a glaring red flag.
Being yourself doesn’t extend to how you treat someone.
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