Many people are quick to label Jeremiah a love bomber, but upon examining his behavior on Love Island, that narrative doesn’t hold. Aside from one early moment where he came off a bit possessive, he’s backed off. Meanwhile, Huda has consistently shown possessiveness, even after the recoupling with Iris. She calls other women b!tches and verbally disrespects Jeremiah multiple times.
What’s more interesting is the way some women are going out of their way to defend Huda’s behavior. Not because it’s justifiable, but because they see themselves in her. They feel personally called out by the valid criticism being aimed at Huda, so now they’re reacting defensively. These same women struggle with accountability, so rather than admit Huda’s actions are over the line, they double down and shift the blame to Jeremiah, because blaming a man is easier and more socially accepted.
What’s more interesting is the way some women are going out of their way to defend Huda’s behavior. Not because it’s justifiable, but because they see themselves in her. They feel personally called out by the valid criticism being aimed at Huda, so now they’re reacting defensively. These same women struggle with accountability, so rather than admit Huda’s actions are over the line, they double down and shift the blame to Jeremiah, because blaming a man is easier and more socially accepted.