Ladies, would you keep trying for a girl?

I’d be glad whatever Allah has given me, but I might even prefer having daughters. Allah preferred daughters for the Prophet (s), and there must be hikmat behind that. From my observation it’s much easier to educate, mold, and protect your daughters. Girls have a much better overall physical health and mental stability then men. They are also less of a liability, since they are less likely to exhibit reckless behavior that can be detrimental to you or them. Also in your old age it’s your daughter who will be more willing to sacrifice her time, to assist you if you have trouble fulfilling your day to day tasks.

To be have been gifted a healthy daughter and to be upset is upmost ungratefulness the most high
 
If it doesn't work after the third try, i will adopt a little girl from Somalia. There are many children back home who are destined to a sad sad life, why go through pregnancy again. That shit hurts.
 
Why you acting like you wouldn’t be crying in the inside too :pachah1:

Okay that’s too adorable but imagine them as teenagers lol

I think they will be good friends. And the fights spectacular lol! I can't remember the somali proverb but my mum used to say "Raising them is nothing compared to separating them during a fight". I love having sisters.
 
Also girls are generally neater and tidier, a household with 6 boys is much more chaotic then one with 6 girls
 

Gibiin-Udug

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We have a family friend who has 6 boys and she said she will keep trying until she gets a girl, would you ladies do that? I can understand men saying these things since it’s not their bodies but a woman? :farmajoyaab: How many tries would you give before giving up?
I’ve a cousin who has 11 boys she kept trying but everytime it would be a boy, she moved to Nairobi and adopted 2 girls from our subclan...


And no I wouldn’t keep trying, I would adopt a baby girl.
 

NotMyL

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Also girls are generally neater and tidier, a household with 6 boys is much more chaotic then one with 6 girls
Very true, whenever I visit my brother I feel for the guy, he’s buying a new dinning table every other month. Boys break everything and are reckless. My sister has two little daughters and they can sit somewhere for hours playing peacefully with their dolls.
I’ve a cousin who has 11 boys she kept trying but everytime it would be a boy, she moved to Nairobi and adopted 2 girls from our subclan...


And no I wouldn’t keep trying, I would adopt a baby girl.
11 boys? :damn:I feel for those two little girls imagine growing up with that many boys lol but MashAllah I wish more people will do what your cousin did, there are so many Somali children even in the west that need a family.
 
We have a family friend who has 6 boys and she said she will keep trying until she gets a girl, would you ladies do that? I can understand men saying these things since it’s not their bodies but a woman? :farmajoyaab: How many tries would you give before giving up?
I would stop at 3 girl or not. I am a human not a baby machine.
 

Factz

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No point in keeping on trying at that point, my poor uncle got
5 daughters doing that :mjkkk:

To have boys you have to have sex the day before ovulation, or very close to ovulation. This is due to the fact the Y sperm cells are faster yet die quicker, but X sperm cells are slower but are more resilient and can survive for days in the vaginal canal, therefore, you have to impregnate the day before the egg leaves because if you wait and another egg comes, the residual female sperm are much more likely to penetrate the egg and create a zygote.

Speak to your uncle about this and tell him about these heuristic techniques.
 
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