Ladies what do you bring to the table ?

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Shimbiris said:
How is that bila akhlaaq all of a sudden ?!? :wtf:
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How old are you, do you honestly think a man seriously pursues a woman to ask ‘what do you bring to the table?’ Most men that go out of their way to be with a woman already knows her value and they’d avoid the women who don’t fit their standard.

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If your Male relatives/sons would consult you for advice on how to choose a spouse ,would you give them this terrible advice? :wtfdis:
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No, I’d expect them to be man enough not to bother women they don’t rate. As a man you’re the pursuer, so why annoy or chase after women just to ask them, ‘wHaT dO bRiNg To THe TaBlE’? Observe, get to know them, do background checks and then go from there. There is no reason as to why you need to ask that question.
 
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Angelina said:
How old are you, do you honestly think a man seriously pursues a woman to ask ‘what do you bring to the table?’ Most men that go out of their way to be with a woman already knows her value and they’d avoid the women who don’t fit their standard.


No, I’d expect them to be man enough not to bother women they don’t rate. As a man you’re the pursuer, so why annoy or chase after women just to ask them, ‘wHaT dO bRiNg To THe TaBlE’? Observe, get to know them, do background checks and then go from there. There is no reason as to why you need to ask that question.
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But you do need to keep in mind that some women do actually approach and in that case you would ask about things like how on deen are you and what they want and what you expect from the relationship.
Not necessarily "what do you bring to the table" 💀
 
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Abdisamad said:
Lool.. You taking things a bit too far, I have seen ladies chasing after guys.. But most guys when engaging with women don't focus on what the women bring to their life, they're mostly focused on her beauty and other qualities.
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On average we both know it’s usually men that pursue women. I’m not talking about outliers here. And beauty is a commodity that men value and a woman that has that is bringing that. Also, the other qualities you’re talking about is something that benefit him, if not he wouldn’t be wanting it.
Abdisamad said:
Most important for me is a woman who loves and respects me and who is there for me in good and bad times, this is truly wife material.. But most women nowadays are very selfish and have a pseudo feminist mindset where you share everything 50/50 but your money and support is shared 100% with her.. That's like driving on a one sided road.
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You have no idea what most women are like. And you’ve proved my point. Most men who ask that question are incredibly biased and have a bad views of women in general in which you clearly displayed right now. Instead of going for a woman that fits your requirement, you’re asking that question out of frustration you have for most women, whom aren’t your business nor do they want you.

Also, the 50/50 point you made is false.
Most women do most of the household labour. So where do you get that from? Literal studies and research as well as real life shows despite women now putting money into the house, household expectations for women haven’t changed .Men aren’t overwhelming doing most or everything at home and their wives contribute financially a lot these days as well. I want to know in all honesty where the myth came from that men are doing 50/50 at home? Kids are mostly being looked after their mothers, mostly being cooked for by their mothers, and the list goes on.
 
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Javelin said:
But you do need to keep in mind that some women do actually approach and in that case you would ask about things like how on deen are you and what they want and what you expect from the relationship.
Not necessarily "what do you bring to the table" tho 💀
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Very and I mean very rarely. We both know that. So using minority cases to dismiss points isn’t honest. A woman isn’t chasing you, going up to your family, asking your hand in marriage, paying you money and the list goes on.

Of course you’d ask those questions! The getting to know you stage is a time in which people ask questions and observe! But no one apart from redpillers on social media is asking with such arrogance ‘what do you bring to the table’. Honestly, I’d find it rude if a woman asks a man that as well. You get to know people in a civilized manner through conversation, observation and the list goes on.
 
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Angelina said:
How old are you, do you honestly think a man seriously pursues a woman to ask ‘what do you bring to the table?’ Most men that go out of their way to be with a woman already knows her value and they’d avoid the women who don’t fit their standard.


No, I’d expect them to be man enough not to bother women they don’t rate. As a man you’re the pursuer, so why annoy or chase after women just to ask them, ‘wHaT dO bRiNg To THe TaBlE’? Observe, get to know them, do background checks and then go from there. There is no reason as to why you need to ask that question.
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Did you mix up quotes somehow, walaashay?
 
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Angelina said:
Very and I mean very rarely. We both know that. So using minority cases to dismiss points isn’t honest. A woman isn’t chasing you, going up to your family, asking your hand in marriage, paying you money and the list goes on.

Of course you’d ask those questions! The getting to know you stage is a time in which people ask questions and observe! But no one apart from redpillers on social media is asking with such arrogance ‘what do you bring to the table’. Honestly, I’d find it rude if a woman asks a man that as well. You get to know people in a civilized manner through conversation, observation and the list goes on.
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I'm talking based off personal experience with being approached

But yeah they definitely are not going to your family or asking your hand in marriage or paying that ain't there role I was just talking about the initial approaching/show of interest happens quite often and then we men take it from there.

But yes putting a what do you bring to the table question forward from either side is weird and dumb especially since you showed interest and wouldn't be there in the first place if you weren't interested.
 
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Javelin said:
I'm talking based off personal experience with the approaching

But yeah they definitely are not going to your family or asking your hand in marriage or paying that ain't there role I was just talking about the initial approaching/show of interest happens quite often and then we men take it from there.

But yes putting a what do you bring to the table question forward from either side is weird and dumb especially since you showed interest and wouldn't be there in the first place if you weren't interested.
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Exactly, it’s dumb and childish and I’d look what a woman asking a man she’s talking to ‘wHaT dO yOu BrInG tO tHe TaBle’ a moron as well.

I mean if my brother was talking to a girl like that I’d tell him to run as well. Clearly she’s arrogant and doesn’t understand how to ask, get to know and observe people.

It sounds like it’s something out of shark tank rather than a healthy and viable relationship.
 
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Angelina said:
How old are you, do you honestly think a man seriously pursues a woman to ask ‘what do you bring to the table?’ Most men that go out of their way to be with a woman already knows her value and they’d avoid the women who don’t fit their standard.


No, I’d expect them to be man enough not to bother women they don’t rate. As a man you’re the pursuer, so why annoy or chase after women just to ask them, ‘wHaT dO bRiNg To THe TaBlE’? Observe, get to know them, do background checks and then go from there. There is no reason as to why you need to ask that question.
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It's not about asking women that particular question like a retard ,obviously.

I'd expect answer's like
Deen ,character, modesty , chastity, loyalty ,akhlaq etc. :dead:
 
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Bundasliga said:
It's not about asking women that particular question like a retard ,obviously.

I'd expect answer's like
Deen ,character, modesty , chastity, loyalty ,akhlaq etc. :dead:
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Lol, you find out those things through conversation and asking then what they think of certain things. Seriously social skills are lacking with some of the guys here 😂😂

Btw as I was just telling Javelin. If my brother was to tell me that a girl asked him what he brought to the table I’d think she’s semi-autistic or just rude. So that also goes for some of you ladies as well. Please don’t
 
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Angelina said:
Lol, you find out those things through conversation and asking then what they think of certain things. Seriously social skills are lacking with some of the guys here 😂😂

Btw as I was just telling Javelin. If my brother was to tell me that a girl asked him what he brought to the table I’d think she’s semi-autistic or just rude. So that also goes for some of you ladies as well. Please don’t
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