Ladies this is why you can't have a guy as best friend

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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I read that as controlled manipulation of the male sexual short-sightedness and ego - a very dangerous game.

Not sure I'd want to be friends with someone that you can't be vulnerable around - regardless if you blue ball them or not. That degenerate is looking down your shirt when you're hunched over crying.
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:trumpsmirk:The friendzone is a wonderful holding cell to deposit everyone into.
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For some reason, some are crazy enough to like confinement more than the outside world. kkkkk
 

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Man and Woman can’t be ‘best friends’. Eventually, one will catch feelings for the other :francis: It’s how we are programmed. Simple as
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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U are too smart for your own good, u will end up destroying urself and you will not even see it coming.
Have fun
I have never lost. Go ask my many victims. I mean friends. I keep my dignity and sanity while I rob theirs. Isn't that what friendship is?
So ur going to be friends with someone who has hidden intentions with you the enitre time?
Everyone has intentions. The question is are they allowed to act on them. In my police state. Absolutely not. Unless they want to be beaten with a nightstick and then hauled away.
 
I have never lost. Go ask my many victims. I mean friends. I keep my dignity and sanity while I rob theirs. Isn't that what friendship is?
U literally just proved my point, and u don't even realise, it's funny watching people think they can outsmart other people and get away with it, again it will be thrown back in your face and "You will not even see it coming", ofc u won't believe me, Your over-reliance on your own intellect will eventually fail you.
The problem with intentions is, even if a person is not allowed to act on it, the person will still be effected by there intentions, this entire conversation, whatever my intention is of speaking to you, will change the way I use my words, down to the letter while you do not even perceive it, similarly, having a friend who has no good intention for you, while keeping them at a distance where they cannot enact there intention, still has an effect on you, as they will do anything in there possible power, in order to do what they want. Find as many loopholes as possible, it will have a negative effect on the person.
In fact, by you being a friend to this person, you are wasting your own time keeping them in mental slavery to you, because the entire time, your ego is going bigger, and you are feeding your own illness. Sometimes illnesses take a long time to be brought to the surface and take effect, but I assure you that your ego and and desire for power will eventually overtake you when you least expect it and ironically leave you powerless.
You say you have never lost, but that is what short-sighted people say, in fact a person can only say they never lost from retrospect, since you are still young, you will not see all the events as a result of your relationships unfold yet, It is only a matter of time.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
U literally just proved my point, and u don't even realise, it's funny watching people think they can outsmart other people and get away with it, again it will be thrown back in your face and "You will not even see it coming", ofc u won't believe me, Your over-reliance on your own intellect will eventually fail you.
The problem with intentions is, even if a person is not allowed to act on it, the person will still be effected by there intentions, this entire conversation, whatever my intention is of speaking to you, will change the way I use my words, down to the letter while you do not even perceive it, similarly, having a friend who has no good intention for you, while keeping them at a distance where they cannot enact there intention, still has an effect on you, as they will do anything in there possible power, in order to do what they want. Find as many loopholes as possible, it will have a negative effect on the person.
In fact, by you being a friend to this person, you are wasting your own time keeping them in mental slavery to you, because the entire time, your ego is going bigger, and you are feeding your own illness. Sometimes illnesses take a long time to be brought to the surface and take effect, but I assure you that your ego and and desire for power will eventually overtake you when you least expect it and ironically leave you powerless.
You say you have never lost, but that is what short-sighted people say, in fact a person can only say they never lost from retrospect, since you are still young, you will not see all the events as a result of your relationships unfold yet, It is only a matter of time.

I'm not a spring chicken but thank you for making my day by calling me one.

If anyone wants to be my friend that happens to be a 'male,' then the 'friend zone' is where they'll go.

How about we start by operationalizing what 'friend' means to me.

Someone I occasionally check up on to see if they are alive from time to time. The bar is quite low.

I don't believe that it is my fault if someone finds me attractive. It makes them a bit more courteous. Anyway, I do not think every guy is a suitable prospect, and multiple exposures to them might not change my mind.

I think everyone has merit, and you can still learn a lot from them, even if this does not translate into anything beyond friends. I might not be what they are looking for, and similarly, they might not be what I'm looking for. However, it still doesn't mean that I don't consider them wonderful people, and why wouldn't I wish the best for them. Provided they hold similar sentiments.

I will admit to one thing. You cannot be friends with a guy who does not believe in that construct. A man who thinks the only relationship between unrelated people must have some sexual undertones or be a prelude to one. Nope. I believe I have established that sex and physical intimacy come after marriage to me, and no one has ever been granted access in all my years. Hence, why I say I always win.
 
I'm not a spring chicken but thank you for making my day by calling me one.

If anyone wants to be my friend that happens to be a 'male,' then the 'friend zone' is where they'll go.

How about we start by operationalizing what 'friend' means to me.

Someone I occasionally check up on to see if they are alive from time to time. The bar is quite low.

I don't believe that it is my fault if someone finds me attractive. It makes them a bit more courteous. Anyway, I do not think every guy is a suitable prospect, and multiple exposures to them might not change my mind.

I think everyone has merit, and you can still learn a lot from them, even if this does not translate into anything beyond friends. I might not be what they are looking for, and similarly, they might not be what I'm looking for. However, it still doesn't mean that I don't consider them wonderful people, and why wouldn't I wish the best for them. Provided they hold similar sentiments.

I will admit to one thing. You cannot be friends with a guy who does not believe in that construct. A man who thinks the only relationship between unrelated people must have some sexual undertones or be a prelude to one. Nope. I believe I have established that sex and physical intimacy come after marriage to me, and no one has ever been granted access in all my years. Hence, why I say I always win.
Yes but by freemixing with men and calling them friends even though deep down inside both of you know you cannot be true friends you have already failed.
Would you still have these"guy friends" while you are married? I do not think you would
 
Yes but by freemixing with men and calling them friends even though deep down inside both of you know you cannot be true friends you have already failed.
Would you still have these"guy friends" while you are married? I do not think you would
Loool I don't think she is the party or highly socialising type, her concept of friendship probably has highly Conservative descriptors like Shah meets or Instagram DMs. I don't think you'd see her twerking to dance hall music 😏😏
 
Loool I don't think she is the party or highly socialising type, her concept of friendship probably has highly Conservative descriptors like Shah meets or Instagram DMs. I don't think you'd see her twerking to dance hall music 😏😏
Thats not a friendship then thats just, I know u you know me
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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Thats not a friendship then thats just, I know u you know me
:dead1: I'm saddened. That you don't consider that friends.
Yes but by freemixing with men and calling them friends even though deep down inside both of you know you cannot be true friends you have already failed.
Would you still have these"guy friends" while you are married? I do not think you would
Me and @Sophisticate have been friends since 2019.. She's cool, she's smart and sometimes a little bit funny.. And she scares all the Faraxs away.. When you shukaansing her it's like you are shukansi a wall nothing seems to work :ohlord: :farmajoyaab:
I really don't mind if my guy friends are into me. I think they are very sweet. I see past their strange humour and recognize them for the dynamic and interesting characters they are. :manny:
If it's any consolation if I could put them all into one Abdi I'd marry that chimera. He'd definitely have Multiple Personality Disorder, but I'd never get bored.

Psycho + Psycho = True Love.
 
Me and @Sophisticate have been friends since 2019.. She's cool, she's smart and sometimes a little bit funny.. And she scares all the Faraxs away.. When you shukaansing her it's like you are shukansi a wall nothing seems to work :ohlord: :farmajoyaab:
U are not friends.
U are 2 people talking to each other through messages.
U dont even know if the person on the other side is a man or women
 

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