Ladies how do you feel about in-laws paying for your wedding/mehr

I know a couple of guys who don’t really pay mehr and wedding expenses. They usually get everyone in there family to contribute. They don’t tell there wife to be for obvious reasons and lie like they got it. How would you feel or react if your man wasn’t contributing to your union?
 
Isn't this normal? The family raise money to pay the expenses.

There's nothing wrong with family helping out, weddings are expensive, but the man should save up for and pay the mahr himself at least.
 
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Isn't this normal? The family raise money to pay the expenses.

There's nothing wrong with family helping out, weddings are expensive, but the man should save up for and pay the mahr himself at least.
You want your father in law paying for everything? Are you marrying his dad or his brother lol. Guys like this should fast all week wallahi.
 
You want your father in law paying for everything? Are you marrying his dad or his brother lol. Guys like this should fast all week wallahi.

It's not just the father in law. They collect money from relatives and neighbours. My family chipped in for one of my neighbours son's wedding.
 
It's not just the father in law. They collect money from relatives and neighbours. My family chipped in for one of my neighbours son's wedding.
Thats sad, If I was a girl I would look for a guy who’s is financially responsible and has a decent job abd have no wedding.

Imagine he can’t provide later on.
 
Thats sad, If I was a girl I would look for a guy who’s is financially responsible and has a decent job abd have no wedding.

Imagine he can’t provide later on.

He should be financially secure with a stable job, definitely. It's ok if family help out with wedding costs, gifts to bride & family etc., as long as he's contributing most or whatever he can. But the mahr he should pay himself.
 
I think it depends if I was in africa he was in the west I probably wouldn’t mind considering my circumstances however if he lives here like I do heck no. In-laws being involved like that could also mean they’ll be all up in your business after marriage
 

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