Ladies, don't be afraid to shoot your shot!

[mohamedismail]

 

[mohamedismail]

We need to normalise women shooting their shot. Women, if you find a guy you like don't be ashamed to shoot your shot and show interest. Life is too short.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

Don't listen to this ladies.

LOOOOL, please, none of these men on earth are the Prophet Muhammad SAW, or anything similar. Absolutely NOT worth shooting a 'shot'.

If a man wants you, he'll approach you. If he doesn't approach you, he doesn't like you enough or he's not confident, you don't want that. Also, these kind of men LOVE to tell everyone that you approached first. We always hear 'how did you meet', you want him telling everyone that you chased him?
The sperm chases the egg, not the other way round, don't fight nature.

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

I advise you all to go back to Somalia, especially you guys who struggle with women. SMH

The guys back home, will hit on women, no matter how young or old they are. They have confidence and 'swagger'. These men in the West, have forgotten how to be their own gender, I think. It's very strange.

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

A lot of women are scared of rejection even more then men it’s something I’ve noticed

 

[𐒁𐒚𐒒𐒂𐒘𐒂𐒗 𐒎𐒚𐒗𐒗𐒒]

A lot of women are scared of rejection even more then men it’s something I’ve noticed

As they should be. It's not for women to chase men, it's inappropriate and not good for the female spirit. Men are supposed to have tough skin and go after what they want in life. It's part of adulting. The most a woman should do, is have (appropriate) open body language in the presence of a man she likes.

 

[Sophisticate]

His energy and responsiveness matters more not who initiates communication first. Many don't even know you are single and are intimidated. Especially if you are accomplished or very attractive. This can include similar others. Enthusiasm is expected along with indication of interest at the minimum. Not an air of indifference or someone too bold. Those ones are wildcards. He could be for everyone and lacking in discernment. That is a bad sign.

 

[Mudug_gyal]

Never chase a guy period. Imagine you fight and he tells the kids you was down bad 4 him and chased him. I would rather shoot myself…

 

[Lais]

Desperate revert

 

[Richard Pearson]

Horrible advice this is way too masculine if a women directly shot her shot like that at me I'd be concerned something gotta be wrong with her at least that's what I would be thinking.

 

[Al Adnani]

I advise you all to go back to Somalia, especially you guys who struggle with women. SMH

The guys back home, will hit on women, no matter how young or old they are. They have confidence and 'swagger'. These men in the West, have forgotten how to be their own gender, I think. It's very strange.

Sister this is a bad thing.

 

[mohamedismail]

Don't listen to this ladies.

LOOOOL, please, none of these men on earth are the Prophet Muhammad SAW, or anything similar. Absolutely NOT worth shooting a 'shot'.

If a man wants you, he'll approach you. If he doesn't approach you, he doesn't like you enough or he's not confident, you don't want that. Also, these kind of men LOVE to tell everyone that you approached first. We always hear 'how did you meet', you want him telling everyone that you chased him?
The sperm chases the egg, not the other way round, don't fight nature.

Even in Somali culture it's okay for a woman to shoot her shot. They used to do it back in the day in the Miyi. It's just that they would do it subliminally.

 

[caanoshaah]

I would never shoot my shot to a man (atleast not irl) because I’m only attracted to men who are attracted to me. And my opinion is if he is attracted to me then he would make a move himself, and if he is not making a move that means he must be either shy or apprehensive.

Shyness isn’t a bad thing but admittedly I need a man that’s a leader Srry I know that’s cliche but, there’s very specific personality traits that I’m attracted to (not sure how to describe it) and if he’s not capable of making a move to me he doesn’t have those traits. I’m not necessarily referring to extroversion but I guess assertiveness/fearlessness.

On the other hand if he’s not shy he’s apprehensive for some reason… I’m not a pushy person I’m a go with the flow person, so me making a move would feel like I’m pushing it. Cant do it, would rather jump in a pool full of xaar and hiv needles

 

[mohamedismail]

Never chase a guy period. Imagine you fight and he tells the kids you was down bad 4 him and chased him. I would rather shoot myself…

Nobody said chase. Just shoot your shot if you find a guy who you think is right for you.

 

[mohamedismail]

Desperate revert

The funny thing is she is actually married. So her advice is coming from experience and it's clearly worked well for her. Her being a revert is irrelevant.

 

[Rakoon]

Bro was you the guy was posting all the threads about Hijra to Morocco or was it the other Mohammed coz I always get confused

 

[mohamedismail]

Some great advice. Sisters listen to this carefully. Make the first move .

This what you call Naag nool behaviour

 

[AbrahamFreedom]

I have had a good amount of women approach me. It made me feel very awkward to reject them all. Don't approach because you will make some men feel bad for rejecting you and it's feels worse than us getting rejected.

 

[Keep it a boqol]

fellas, if a women likes you, she’ll go out of her way to make it really easy for you to approach her, and make the move.

You would have to be completely blind not to see the interest. All you gotta do is not be a coward and pull the trigger

 

[Lais]

The funny thing is she is actually married. So her advice is coming from experience and it's clearly worked well for her. Her being a revert is irrelevant.

It is relevant she’s pushing her views from when she was non muslim to Muslim women. No xaya.