Knowing about a potential's past

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Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
A conversation between me and a non muslim women.

so today at work one of my female co workers was trying to set me up with another co worker. I told her i wasn't interested at all since i get distracted easily and that i wanted to focus on women after i finished school. So i told her about how i wanted to get married later on and etc. I ended up asking her about her marriage and she told me she got divorced. I asked her how long she was married and she said 12 years. I said damn 12 years why did it end. She said i had no connection with him and i was also cheating on him for 10 years.

BRO TEN FUCKING YEARS WTF. HELL NAW MAN 10 FUCKING YEARS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!. BRO THE WORST PART IS THAT HER HUSBAND DIDN'T KNOW THE ENTIRE TIME, AND IS STILL TRYING TO GET BACK WITH HER. LIKE WTF.

She is currently in a relationship right now with another man who she has been with for five years. She said she has been faithful, I am hoping she remains faithful. I don't know if the guy she is with knows about her past but that honestly isn't my business.

Dude that hurt my soul man. that entire time she was speaking about her past i was re evaluating my entire decision of participating in arranged marriage in the future. I would never ever consider marrying a women if i found out she had a past of cheating.

I KNOW A MAJORITY OF MUSLIMS DON'T HAVE A CRAZY PAST. put this in caps cause their is usually one foolish person who thinks someone is talking about all Muslims.

i don't have a crazy past. most i ever did was steal a beer from work, drank it, didn't understand the hype and through it away. went clubbing twice( a nigga like to dance) haven't been since. still a virgin( most girls that are attracted to me i wasn't attracted to them at all) easily was able to curve. everytime i thought of entering a relationship the thought of how haram it is comes into my mind, and i just abort it immediately.

my question: is it okay to ask other people about the past of your potential. of course people who you fully trust. not some random ass nigga who might know the person.
 

Jake from State Farm

We pro xalimo all 2019
bro I been trying to go to sleep for the past twenty minutes, but I'm too angry about this shit. I'm about to be fighting cheaters in my dreams fam.

if you cheat on a female/nigga than you deserve a sweet chin music
 
I have given up being nice to women , I have literally begun playing games with them. I thought they would be like fk off str8 up but instead they are now chasing me.I feel almost sorry for them. For your question , the past is the past focus on the present and future.if your girl is cheating on you than you deserve it, the other man was a better you.Hence she felt he was more worth her time than you.
 
You're putting too much energy into hypotheticals. Most people aren't out there trying to trick people into marrying them and fabricating an innocent past. One of my best friends has been cheating on his fiance and baby mother for years. So yeah, for sure people can be slimey, but it's between those individuals. It's not that deep and shouldn't affect you.

If you're a god-fearing Muslim guy you should aim for an equally pious girl. You state you're a virgin which means you are well within your rights to expect your future wife to be a virgin. That's a sensitive subject nowadays, but don't let anyone tell you any different. Even if you're in grey waters, like many of us, you still get to set your own standards.

So, yes. It is 1000% okay to ask other people about a potential's past. You need to do what's best for you.
 
I have given up being nice to women , I have literally begun playing games with them. I thought they would be like fk off str8 up but instead they are now chasing me.I feel almost sorry for them. For your question , the past is the past focus on the present and future.if your girl is cheating on you than you deserve it, the other man was a better you.Hence she felt he was more worth her time than you.

No one likes a pushover but also no one likes a douche :siilaanyolaugh: you need to find a middle ground
 
I changed my previous views saxib.
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Fk their past , if she is fking another guy behind ur back you ain't a real man.The fact that the guy was with her for 10 years while she got pounded by another guy shows that he is emotionally attached to her. My uncle taught me much in Somalia.Its working well so far
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