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One of my friends. She tried to set me up and get me jumped just because her boyfriend was talking to me and preferred me. She even texted me and said your gonna get fucked up your bones might even get broken. I was scared I quickly told my cousin about this and he settled the whole thing. Others have snaked me too.

Some people are sick I stay away from so many because of my experiences.


Question: Are these people all Somali?
 
The importance of keeping your circle small will always be there with you for life whether you like it or not. I know people who have way too many friends who fall out and make up but the love and the vibe just isn't genuine.

A lot of jealous snakes can creep in if you have too many friends. Your just creating a space for a fake in your life. I knew the importance of keeping a small circle from the age of 17. Its always best to have 2 friends who are very close to you to be there and support you. So many jealous people out there with family issues and something wrong with their lives these days. They get jealous the minute you are close to someone and your not giving them the attention they want. Because they don't recieve it at home.

Fake people that put on a show in front of everyone just for people to give some sympathy. I'm sick of these people. I acctually know some who would purchase acid because jealousy reeks in their heart and they want to destroy someone. Subhannalah may Allah guide these people.

Keep a close eye on peoples behaviour and how they treat you. Stay safe people are sick as I said I know people who would purchase acid they show all the behaviour of it.

keep your circle small. Life gets better when you have your real ones with you.
I knew a somali girl who got boiling hot water thrown on her by her cousins she later moved to canada and got tattoo treatment
 

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One of my friends. She tried to set me up and get me jumped just because her boyfriend was talking to me and preferred me. She even texted me and said your gonna get fucked up your bones might even get broken. I was scared I quickly told my cousin about this and he settled the whole thing. Others have snaked me too.

Some people are sick I stay away from so many because of my experiences.
Damn, who knew Somalis got down like this :dwill:

f*ck that.

As a rule of thumb, it’s best not to have told her he was trying to catch your interest. Unless she was really super close, like I’m talking diaper days, it’s more trouble than it’s worth, and better if they find out what he gets up to on their own. Up and leave when they’re hanging out, and never catch yourself alone with him. Some guys are butthurt enough he’ll tell her you came onto him when you dodge.

I hope you dropped them for good
 
Damn, who knew Somalis got down like this :dwill:

f*ck that.

As a rule of thumb, it’s best not to have told her he was trying to catch your interest. Unless she was really super close, like I’m talking diaper days, it’s more trouble than it’s worth, and better if they find out what he gets up to on their own. Up and leave when they’re hanging out, and never catch yourself alone with him. Some guys are butthurt enough he’ll tell her you came onto him when you dodge.

I hope you dropped them for good

Or she could've let the brother have it one time, drop the fascination, and live happily ever after with his girl
 

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Or she could've let the brother have it one time, drop the fascination, and live happily ever after with his girl
That’s how you lot try to move with your friends’ gfs and your gf’s friends and her sister. Don’t get it confused.
 
That’s how you lot try to move with your friends’ gfs and her friends and her sister. Don’t get it confused.

What's this Vixr? Don't pull a knowles on me and turn out to be a local bbw

And nah, that's disgusting. I would never. That's a hard line. Anyone that crosses it is honestly no better than a literal rat. No morals and no self control. Your boy's gf? Sister? Nah.

Your girl's friend is a grey area and not at all comparable. Totally depends on context
 

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What's this Vixr? Don't pull a knowles on me and turn out to be a local bbw

And nah, that's disgusting. I would never. That's a hard line. Anyone that crosses it is honestly no better than a literal rat. No morals and no self control. Your boy's gf? Sister? Nah.

Your girl's friend is a grey area and not at all comparable and depends on context
What??

If you’re trying to move for either of those, esp while still with her, it’s not up for debate - you have no self control. I’ve seen it all. Judging by what you said...good luck.

Cheating is pretty darn common, it’s practically a given the longer you’re together on both ends. Some ppl have never been in a relationship where they didn’t, and that’s a human weakness I can understand, but have the principles to make it discreet and removed from your relationship
 
What??

If you’re trying to move for either of those, esp while still with her, it’s not up for debate - you have no self control. I’ve seen it all. Judging by what you said...good luck.

Cheating is pretty darn common, it’s practically a given the longer you’re together on both ends. Some ppl have never been in a relationship where they didn’t, and that’s a human weakness I can understand, but have the principles to make it discreet and removed from your relationship

Hmm... you're correct. Cheating on a partner in a strictly monogamous is deplorable and shows that you either don't respect your partner enough or just don't have the power to exert self-control.

I was wrong. I guess... for once I wasn't making... sense?

:mjohreally:

Interesting you say that though, because I categorically disagree that it's a given, especially in long-term relationships. Common? Definitely, but it mostly manifests in the same type of relationships.

Do you think you'll likely cheat on your current or future partner?
 

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Hmm... you're correct. Cheating on a partner in a strictly monogamous is deplorable and shows that you either don't respect your partner enough or just don't have the power to exert self-control.

I was wrong. I guess... for once I wasn't making... sense?

:mjohreally:

Interesting you say that though, because I categorically disagree that it's a given, especially in long-term relationships. Common? Definitely, but it mostly manifests in the same type of relationships.

Do you think you'll likely cheat on your current or future partner?
You categorically disagree that it’s practically a given and yet you were earlier suggesting the girl f*ck her friend’s bf on the sly? Please.

There’s no shortage of misery out there. Sometimes I wonder if we were ever destined to cohabit. Rarely does anything seem to last.

I think the odds of cheating are around or higher than 50-50. I don’t think anyone’s knows if they’ll cheat or not, unless you’re an addict, which is a whole other thing. I’ve never truly been tested by time. I’d like to think not. I have yet to be cheated on, but I’m sure that’ll change going by stats. I like to think that if it comes to that, if the person wants to sleep with someone else they’d tell me and I could speak openly too, but who knows what the outcomes of that sort of arrangement are? Life is one big experiment.
 
You categorically disagree that it’s practically a given and yet you were earlier suggesting the girl f*ck her friend’s bf on the sly?

I wasn't being serious. I thought the 'for once making sense' thing would've gave that away.

50 is still overblown imo. Culture, religion, age etc. are discerning factors. I'm friends with quite a few Caribbeans and some non-fob West Africans. I don't have stats to back this up, but I can bet my bank that they are quite literally 10x more likely to cheat on each other than my Pakistani friends. Even to a much lesser extent cadaan friends from uni.
 
Damn, who knew Somalis got down like this :dwill:

f*ck that.

As a rule of thumb, it’s best not to have told her he was trying to catch your interest. Unless she was really super close, like I’m talking diaper days, it’s more trouble than it’s worth, and better if they find out what he gets up to on their own. Up and leave when they’re hanging out, and never catch yourself alone with him. Some guys are butthurt enough he’ll tell her you came onto him when you dodge.

I hope you dropped them for good
I have dropped them. They are evil.
 
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