Just turned 30 and my hooyo wants to have a serious talk about me marrying

[Wervelwind]

She said that my abti wants to talk to me as well. I said I don't want to to her and she got upset. How do I deal with this smoothly faraxs and xalimos

I'm a farax if that means anything

 

[Ozworld]

Dammm 30 and you’re still single subxaanallah, it looks like someone has done the evil eye on you, you will need to be cleansed so your spirit can start mingling with other spirits.

 

[Wervelwind]

Dammm 30 and you’re still single subxaanallah, it looks like someone has done the evil eye on you, you will need to be cleansed so your spirit can start mingling with other spirits.

unmarried 30 is no big deal for men. It's a huge problem for women

 

[Lord]

I say f EM, if they are not with you they against you. You only live once brother. Don't ever have a child if you don't want one

 

[Sheikh Google]

Don't let family and somali ceeb culture shame you into doing something you feel you aint ready for. Marriage is a big deal and I'd rather get it right.

 

[adventurequestworlds1.0.2]

unmarried 30 is no big deal for men. It's a huge problem for women

It is Big deal for both gender not just woman

 

[ReerVanCadde]

I'm 25 and I've got my stuff sorted and I'm still facing pressure. I can't imagine 30.

 

[so_wavey]

It is Big deal for both gender not just woman

its worse for a girl the man at 30 can stll marry a 23/24 year old virgin girl girl that age wont find a guy her age because a guy her age could get alot younger

she would have to look at guys close to 40 and most them will be married

 

[Louis Vuitton Don]

Your fine till 35 bro. All moms want a grandchild so that’s where it’s probably coming from.

 

[Wervelwind]

Your fine till 35 bro. All moms want a grandchild so that’s where it’s probably coming from.

I've got three brothers not too young from me so I thought she wouldnt be that bothered

 

[newguy0123]

They want the best for you. People put out marriage for so long that they one day wake up at 45 and realise theey are all alone. If you don't feel ready at 30...you never gonna feel ready tbh. nobody talks about the amount of degree's they have or work experience on their death bed....they talk about family.

 

[Wervelwind]

They want the best for you. People put out marriage for so long that they one day wake up at 45 and realise theey are all alone. If you don't feel ready at 30...you never gonna feel ready tbh. nobody talks about the amount of degree's they have or work experience on their death bed....they talk about family.

I can understand that but I don't agree with marrying now just because of fear of being alone later if I don't feel like it at all. What do you think of that?

 

[newguy0123]

I can understand that but I don't agree with marrying now just because of fear of being alone later if I don't feel like it at all. What do you think of that?

If you don't feel like marrying then tell your hooyo and abti. Tell them you don't wnt marriage and be blunt about it. because all they want is to give you is something that is honorable in EVERY culture: a family.

You are one of the lucky ones too...because you have two people willing to help you, which alot of these somali brothers, and especially sisters in the west wish they would have.

If you are that against marrying now i wouldn't recommend it tbh...you need to find out what your issue with marriage is.

 

[yaqir]

Warya I'm 27 turning 28 just say your looking each time worked on me

 

[Wervelwind]

If you don't feel like marrying then tell your hooyo and abti. Tell them you don't wnt marriage and be blunt about it. because all they want is to give you is something that is honorable in EVERY culture: a family.

You are one of the lucky ones too...because you have two people willing to help you, which alot of these somali brothers, and especially sisters in the west wish they would have.

If you are that against marrying now i wouldn't recommend it tbh...you need to find out what your issue with marriage is.

Thanks

Warya I'm 27 turning 28 just say your looking each time worked on me

I thought that before but I don't want to lie to them sxb

 

[celidheere]

just get married lol

 

[Apollo]

You write like a 15 year old.

 

[Sheikh Google]

You write like a 15 year old.

Warya abti relax lool.

 

[Apollo]

Warya abti relax lool.

Look at his post history, lmao, if I had to guess his age based on his writing style I would guess like 16.

 

[mr steal your naag]

Warya I'm 27 turning 28 just say your looking each time worked on me

Damm everybody on this website is old