What choice? You have no choice as a Muslim cause to be a Muslim means he/she who surrender his/her will to the will of Allah, so no theres no such thing as a choice when Allah decrees a matter you as his slave should say I hear & I obey, your opinion is irrelevant.
The Prophet صلى الله عليه وسلم said: “Do not have malice against a Muslim; do not be envious of other Muslims; do not go against a Muslim and forsake him. O the slave of Allah! Be like brothers with each other. It is not allowed for a Muslim to desert his brother for over three days.” [Muslim & Tirmidhi]
