Its hard being a man that is a virgin

Don't listen to these virgins. Do the natural thing. It's going to be real sad when you enter jannah and find all the weed smokers and fornicators there after spending all this energy on living a pious life.
Why would you care about how you spent your earthly life if you’ve made it to jannah:umwhat:You’ve secured eternal joy and pleasure anyway
 
Im a virgin because of my faith and also do no fap for close to two years now, Im feeling full of sexual tension and im afraid im gonna do zina. Im talking to this girl for marriage and wallahi i fear im gonna do zina with her. Im not gonna lie. We have had phone sex and very raunchy conversations. but i stopped it telling her its not in my comfort zone. I met this girl on Muzmatch and she seemed good in paper, but after meeting her, i sensed she is not even remotely close to being mother material. So now im back on ssquare one, What should i do? Im a man and i have urges just like everyone
Bro don't use muzmatch go out there and meet a girl and say your approaching for marriage or go to the mosque and ask for the imam to help you out
 
Not just a virgin but also on Nofap for 2 YEARS.

bro is insane, bet he can birth a whole clan by himself
I have never fapped do you guys not know what happens to the guy who faps on the day of judgment?
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Are you guys insane!?!?!

If you fap stop it's not hard
 

El Nino

Cabsi cabsi
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TWO YEARS OF NOFAP!!

I salute you, you must have the ability to move objects with just using your mind, teach us your ways brother
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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:stressed: I'm truly scared for the lady that ends up with him. He's said some naughty and likely very cliche things before marriage to potentials.

Used goods!
 
Ay I'm on day 20 rn and feel like I left that lifestyle behind.

But in this marriage economy and Onlyfans models getting finer each year, I get why brothers are struggling

:ohno:
I guess it depends on what you consume on the net and discipline/willpower. An idle mind will fall easily so keep yourself occupied and save it all for your future wife like me 👍
 

Qeelbax

East Africa UNUKA LEH
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Ay I'm on day 20 rn and feel like I left that lifestyle behind.

But in this marriage economy and Onlyfans models getting finer each year, I get why brothers are struggling

:ohno:
Do you not feel guilty see “OF” on your bank statement?
something GIF
 
Told me she struggles with praying, does not wear hijab regularly, although all her pics on muzmatch were her in hijab lool, Has drunk alcohol and smoked weed although she told me changed now, constant sexual innuendos on our date and text, Has bad relationship with family. Does not seem to know much about islam. She prays all 5 though, and fasts, so has atleast that for her
Good call. Nothing screams car crash waiting to happen like someone who has a "complicated" relationship or doesn't see "eye to eye" with their family lol
 
It is difficult, but the reward is greater. As Abu Bakr [radiAllahu anhu] said: ''it is difficult to be patient, but to lose the reward for patience is even worse.''

Fasting helps. When I fast, my desire for women decreases to almost 0. Eat less when you're not fasting, because a full person is more inclined to sin than a hungry person.

If you are truly ready for marriage, do not waste time in haraam talks, do it, meet her parents, have a sit down, discuss it, and make it official. Pay her mahr, move her in and establish a halal life, inshaaAllaah.
 

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