Its hard being a man that is a virgin

Im a virgin because of my faith and also do no fap for close to two years now, Im feeling full of sexual tension and im afraid im gonna do zina. Im talking to this girl for marriage and wallahi i fear im gonna do zina with her. Im not gonna lie. We have had phone sex and very raunchy conversations. but i stopped it telling her its not in my comfort zone. I met this girl on Muzmatch and she seemed good in paper, but after meeting her, i sensed she is not even remotely close to being mother material. So now im back on ssquare one, What should i do? Im a man and i have urges just like everyone
 

Yusuf Abdi Ali Rashid

King of Prussia
Im a virgin because of my faith and also do no fap for close to two years now, Im feeling full of sexual tension and im afraid im gonna do zina. Im talking to this girl for marriage and wallahi i fear im gonna do zina with her. Im not gonna lie. We have had phone sex and very raunchy conversations. but i stopped it telling her its not in my comfort zone. I met this girl on Muzmatch and she seemed good in paper, but after meeting her, i sensed she is not even remotely close to being mother material. So now im back on ssquare one, What should i do? Im a man and i have urges just like everyone
I’m gathering all the sexually repressed faraxs on sspot, we’re going on a grand pilgrimage to Colombia. You’re more than welcome to joins us.
 
What makes her not mother material?
Told me she struggles with praying, does not wear hijab regularly, although all her pics on muzmatch were her in hijab lool, Has drunk alcohol and smoked weed although she told me changed now, constant sexual innuendos on our date and text, Has bad relationship with family. Does not seem to know much about islam. She prays all 5 though, and fasts, so has atleast that for her
 
Im a virgin because of my faith and also do no fap for close to two years now, Im feeling full of sexual tension and im afraid im gonna do zina. Im talking to this girl for marriage and wallahi i fear im gonna do zina with her. Im not gonna lie. We have had phone sex and very raunchy conversations. but i stopped it telling her its not in my comfort zone. I met this girl on Muzmatch and she seemed good in paper, but after meeting her, i sensed she is not even remotely close to being mother material. So now im back on ssquare one, What should i do? Im a man and i have urges just like everyone


Ask your family to set u up, also theirs plenty of good girls in here like Zamzam :nvjpqts:
 

ZBR

سبحان اللهِ وبحمدِه Free Palestine
Bro save up money to get married back home to a honest religious girl your family knows, start a family
and focus on your business/ education


You’ll need about 10k, 5k for travel, wedding, other expenses; 5k for meher , and maintaining her in Africa until you’re financially stable to live where you want is like 300-400 a month

If you don’t have 10k you can borrow 5k from your family and save up 5k

if you’re broke get a job, a wife and household is a financial responsibility

Brother you seem like you have a good head on your shoulders, girls are the ultimate distraction, stay away from most focus on your relationship with Allah , and your life purpose, livelihood, and education

Im praying for you young brother, have the strength to protect your loins and mouth, and you’re strong enough to conquer the world
 

ZBR

سبحان اللهِ وبحمدِه Free Palestine
Cant trust a women just because my mother and her mother knows her. My hooyo is a qabilist and she wont care about a womens flaws if shes of our clan
Talk to your grandmother, aunts, uncles, honest people of understanding and serch for a girl that has religious education and from a good household that maintains their daughters
 
She seems to at least be trying to improve herself, so maybe you could check her and be the guiding hand that keeps her on the right path. Or she’s a lost cause IDK
 
Told me she struggles with praying, does not wear hijab regularly, although all her pics on muzmatch were her in hijab lool, Has drunk alcohol and smoked weed although she told me changed now, constant sexual innuendos on our date and text, Has bad relationship with family. Does not seem to know much about islam. She prays all 5 though, and fasts, so has atleast that for her
Just lay down the pipe. I know you want to. When you marry you can pretend like you've never done it.
 

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