I see this a lot, people who made mistakes in the past, who are shamed by society but worse of all, shamed by themselves into staying in their misery.
Ever heard of the saying "every saint has a past and every sinner has a future"? This is very true and in-line with Islam. Allah is merciful and forgives, so please forgive yourself.
It does not matter how old you are, go do that thing you want to do, whether it's going back to school, leaving an abusive spouse, leaving your criminal past, bad social circle. Just turn away from it, it won't be easy but it is 100% worth it.
Allah loves you, so, please love yourself enough to change for the better.
It's not "baggage", it is a lesson, an experience. Just make sure you don't sign up for it again. Stop caring about what people think about you, only care what Allah thinks and that you love what you see in the mirror.
Ever heard of the saying "every saint has a past and every sinner has a future"? This is very true and in-line with Islam. Allah is merciful and forgives, so please forgive yourself.
It does not matter how old you are, go do that thing you want to do, whether it's going back to school, leaving an abusive spouse, leaving your criminal past, bad social circle. Just turn away from it, it won't be easy but it is 100% worth it.
Allah loves you, so, please love yourself enough to change for the better.
It's not "baggage", it is a lesson, an experience. Just make sure you don't sign up for it again. Stop caring about what people think about you, only care what Allah thinks and that you love what you see in the mirror.