It ain’t in her

A lot of men subconsciously seek their mothers love from their women.

Without learning a thing or two about female nature. A woman can only love you for two reasons.

1) what you can do for her.
2) how you make her feel.

you’re not her baby and it’s just your turn, so never get comfortable and never give your heart to no women.

Except for your mother because she will protect it with her life, may Allah bless her.
 
A lot of men subconsciously seek their mothers love from their women.

Without learning a thing or two about female nature. A woman can only love you for two reasons.

1) what you can do for her.
2) how you make her feel.

you’re not her baby and it’s just your turn, so never get comfortable and never give your heart to no women.

Except for your mother because she will protect it with her life, may Allah bless her.
I take it your no hopeless romantic.
 
unconditional love doesn’t exist for both genders in relationships, so I’m confused with why loser redpillers always dwell on that. As a man you’ll not love your wife unconditionally as well. Rudeness, lack of hygiene, not fulfilling her role etc and that might make you not love her anymore and leave. Well duh, it’s the also the same for women.
 
I hate that faux-profound, weed dudebro shit with a passion wallahi. A mother's love is unconditional because without it our species would be fucked. Her brain gets flooded with oxytocin from the onset of labour and for 8 weeks after the birth. She's basically on the hormonal equivalent of MDMA. How can any girl compete with that? :heh:

Women love their children and protect them at all cost, and we love and protect women in return. That's been the arrangement since the dawn of time.
 
I hate that faux-profound, weed dudebro shit with a passion wallahi. A mother's love is unconditional because without it our species would be fucked. Her brain gets flooded with oxytocin (love hormone) from the onset of labour and for 8 weeks after the birth.
Generally speaking so is a fathers. I don’t expect my husband to love me unconditionally as my father, I know i can do some mad shit and a part of my abo will always love me. I’m his flesh and blood…his child and a parents patience will always stretch longer.

You can’t expect that from a partner, if I do some mad stuff obviously my partner will question their love for me and that is human nature. Love between men and women requires work and patience. Your parents love you from the get go, even if you’re a little shit.
 
unconditional love doesn’t exist for both genders in relationships, so I’m confused with why loser redpillers always dwell on that. As a man you’ll not love your wife unconditionally as well. Rudeness, lack of hygiene, not fulfilling her role etc and that might make you not love her anymore and leave. Well duh, it’s the also the same for women.
i would like to think unconditional love exists.
 
Generally speaking so is a fathers. I don’t expect my husband to love me unconditionally as my father, I know i can do some mad shit and a part of my abo will always love me. I’m his flesh and blood…his child and a parents patience will always stretch longer.

You can’t expect that from a partner, if I do some mad stuff obviously my partner will question their love for me and that is human nature. Love between men and women requires work and patience. Your parents love you from the get go, even if you’re a little shit.
Hollywood's warpped people's perception of love wallahi. Romantic love has never been "unconditional". Love was actually transactional for most of human history, real life relationships aren't some fucking Shakespearean play lol
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
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I do not think unconditional parental love is a universal precept. Some individuals love their kids based on conditions and how they make them look. Withdrawing attention or affection when they do not meet their presupposed expectations. Some parents cannot fully love their children or even sufficiently emotionally support them, for that matter. Again, owing to a limited capacity to love. There are also boundaries to parental love as well.
:farmajoyaab: I believe that most love their children unconditionally but placing conditions on people, including your children, is healthy. Overindulging them can create entitlement or, conversely, neglecting them may make them self-loathing, both problematic.

I think I would like to raise a semi-autonomous human being that loves themselves enough to work toward their ideals. Forgives their foibles and acknowledges their demons. Hopefully, tries to do right and alter course when they make errors. And also learns to accept their fallibility with what they cannot change. Those are hallmarks of a fully-integrated and self-aware person.
 
I do not think unconditional parental love is a universal precept. Some individuals love their kids based on conditions and how they make them look. Withdrawing attention or affection when they do not meet their presupposed expectations. Some parents cannot fully love their children or even sufficiently emotionally support them, for that matter. Again, owing to a limited capacity to love. There are also boundaries to parental love as well.
:farmajoyaab: I believe that most love their children unconditionally but placing conditions on people, including your children, is healthy. Overindulging them can create entitlement or, conversely, neglecting them may make them self-loathing, both problematic.

I think I would like to raise a semi-autonomous human being that loves themselves enough to work toward their ideals. Forgives their foibles and acknowledges their demons. Hopefully, tries to do right and alter course when they make errors. And also learns to accept their fallibility with what they cannot change. Those are hallmarks of a fully-integrated and self-aware person.
I understand why you have that name now.
 
What a sad life to live.
A union between a couple was transactionary and a way improve familial ties up until recently. Love marriages are a relatively new phenomena. Sorry to burst your bubble walal, but it's Disney, fairy tale bullshit. But hey, feel free to go find your "soul mate":hemad:
 
A union between a couple was transactionary and a way improve familial ties up until recently. Love marriages are a relatively new phenomena. Sorry to burst your bubble walal, but it's Disney bullshit. But hey, feel free to find your "soul mate":hemad:
Id much rather live in a disney world than this one.
 

Sophisticate

~Gallantly Gadabuursi~
Staff Member
Your ever so welcome dear.
Much appreciated.
A union between a couple was transactionary and a way improve familial ties up until recently. Love marriages are a relatively new phenomena. Sorry to burst your bubble walal, but it's Disney, fairy tale bullshit. But hey, feel free to go find your "soul mate":hemad:
:stressed: Your cynism disguised as realism scares me. Does it have anything to do with putting you on read one too many times? In my defense, I'm a little scatterbrained and highly distractable. Nak, I don't do romance right. But one day, I may treat you like Aladdin (if he weren't a pathological liar that consorted with jiins and daanyeers).

Old Man Smile GIF
 
Much appreciated.

:stressed: Your cynism disguised as realism scares me. Does it have anything to do with putting you on read one too many times? In my defense, I'm a little scatterbrained and highly distractable. Nak, I don't do romance right. But one day, I may treat you like Aladdin (if he weren't a pathological liar that consorted with jiins and daanyeers).

Old Man Smile GIF
Promises, promises. And can you stop psychoanalysing me so correctly please, you're damaing my hardened, grizzled-emotional veteran image. This is a PR nightmare for my brand hunno :mjcry:
Being left on read shouldn't bother a man in his mid 20s, but it still boils my piss wallahi lol
 

BobSmoke

Flying over your heads
unconditional love doesn’t exist for both genders in relationships, so I’m confused with why loser redpillers always dwell on that. As a man you’ll not love your wife unconditionally as well. Rudeness, lack of hygiene, not fulfilling her role etc and that might make you not love her anymore and leave. Well duh, it’s the also the same for women.
Very good point.

Besides, we all know there is not a drug in this world that takes you higher and sinks you lower than love. Something like that should be enjoyed in moderation.

Constantly seeking for unconditional love is a trait of an emotional/love junkie.
 
I take it your no hopeless romantic.
Hopeless is another word for desperate, and desperate men are the lowest of creatures known to women,so no I am not hopeless.

let me ask you a question, what’s your understanding of a“romantic” man?
 
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