Is true that most of the somali guys got approach anxiety when it comes to somali females ?

[Coulombs law]

Whenever you go to these events...Its like everyone is looking for a wife/husband like . Or maybe im paranoid

Nah you are right, its the ONLY reason they go to events... To scope each other out..

 

[anonymous34]

Whenever you go to these events...Its like everyone is looking for a wife/husband like . Or maybe im paranoid

I think so I don't know.
I remember in one university society the first question asked was why did you join. 70% said to find their future spouse. The rest said food and 'hoyo told me so'

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Are you implying we should sin?

Good grief no sir Montgomery quit on the contrary I was suggesting one must elope

 

[Cognitivedissonance]

Don't you know, he is a half time sheikh, half time "smasher"

Ku dhuufo ka dhaqaq it's easy but just don't fall in love

 

[Gambar]

I shit you not one time I randomly approached a Somali girl on the street and the next day hooyo finds out about it since our mothers know each other.

Echolocation.

 

[merka]

she told her mum she got shukaansied

I know right?

Lmaooooo. That must've been very awkward. What did she say to u? Waryaa waan ogahay inantaad shukaansatay maanta kkk

I denied that it ever happened. Told her it must have been someone else :siilaanyosmile:

 

[kickz]

I have been approached by Xalimos just walking around city street and inside grocery stores.

The thirst is real out here:siilaanyolaugh:

 

[Aurora]

I'm glad they don't approach to be honest. It just saves a whole lot of awkwardness..
Some may be afraid of rejection, some may be too shy or scared away by the halimo-pack.
And some may think: what is the point?
You have to think further ahead. Life is not a movie in which you lock eyes with a beautiful stranger, stare at each other longingly and then in that 4 second moment both magically know that you are the one for each another. Lol. Usually it's just superficial attraction


But seriously, what is the point? if you're a serious person and don't want to get involved in useless chitchat and the long dating process or whatever, it's a pointless thing to do.

For example when I was 17 there was this attractive somali guy at my uni. He was also literally the only one as I don't live in UK and there aren't many Somalis here. He used to stare like no other, for years on end. Smile and try to get my attention and what not. He was only at school for like one day a week and that day I was always a bit nervous and always on the look out for him looool

Any girl her mind would start to wander and so I used to hope he would approach me but every made up scenario/fantasy had no ending I desired. Dating? No. Marriage? (Yes I understand I was getting Waay ahead of myself but allow it. Young and naive) No. So no options. You just have to surpress your attraction loool. That's what I did. Ignore him as best as I could and act like he didn't bother me.
Wasn't fun but it probably was for the best

As I said you have to think ahead and understand that all it is you're feeling is lust/superficual attraction and there is no need to act upon it immediately.

 

[Mohamud]

I'm glad they don't approach to be honest. It just saves a whole lot of awkwardness..
Some may be afraid of rejection, some may be too shy or scared away by the halimo-pack.
And some may think: what is the point?
You have to think further ahead. Life is not a movie in which you lock eyes with a beautiful stranger, stare at each other longingly and then in that 4 second moment both magically know that you are the one for each another. Lol. Usually it's just superficial attraction


But seriously, what is the point? if you're a serious person and don't want to get involved in useless chitchat and the long dating process or whatever, it's a pointless thing to do.

For example when I was 17 there was this attractive somali guy at my uni. He was also literally the only one as I don't live in UK and there aren't many Somalis here. He used to stare like no other, for years on end. Smile and try to get my attention and what not. He was only at school for like one day a week and that day I was always a bit nervous and always on the look out for him looool

Any girl her mind would start to wander and so I used to hope he would approach me but every made up scenario/fantasy had no ending I desired. Dating? No. Marriage? (Yes I understand I was getting Waay ahead of myself but allow it. Young and naive) No. So no options. You just have to surpress your attraction loool. That's what I did. Ignore him as best as I could and act like he didn't bother me.
Wasn't fun but it probably was for the best

As I said you have to think ahead and understand that all it is you're feeling is lust/superficual attraction and there is no need to act upon it immediately.

While I don't disagree with most of what you said, superficial attractions usually become deep rooted feelings.

Also that logic applies when you're really young but most of us are old enough to consider our life partners.

 

[Aurora]

While I don't disagree with most of what you said, superficial attractions usually become deep rooted feelings.

Also that logic applies when you're really young but most of us are old enough to consider our life partners.

You're right
I was just writing from my own perspective, meaning I still apply the same logic which stems from not feeling ready for considering your life partner.
But I understand that's not the case for everyone of course.

 

[Prince of Lasanod]

Somali girls are scary to be honest

Back in school, they were stronger than even guys I knew.

 

[Ubax45_]

Group of women are better then the individual women approach, the latter kills mystery and tension while the former magnifies both as each chick wonders which one your interested in

The hand of power is firmly back in your hands and you can pick and choose, but very few know this.

wrong, equally distributing the attention is a beta male action, what your supposed to do is give one attention (preferably the one your not even interested in) so the others get jealous.

You need to go back to the introductory level course.

 

[Inquisitive_]

wrong, equally distributing the attention is a beta male action, what your supposed to do is give one attention (preferably the one your not even interested in) so the others get jealous.

You need to go back to the introductory level course.

Are you a lesbian or something?

You giving advice on how to ravaged through a women? bisinka, first time I seen this


Wale Xaalada wey adagtahey

 

[Bahal]

I was only approached like once by a chubby Farax in a shop he gave me his number out of the blue he looked so nervous miskinka but I didn't contact him for obvious reasons.

Literally laughing out loud



I can picture it now, my nigga mustering up the courage to talk only to hand you a slip of paper like a ransom note. As the days go by, he slowly loses hope.

 

[Tramo]

wrong, equally distributing the attention is a beta male action, what your supposed to do is give one attention (preferably the one your not even interested in) so the others get jealous.

You need to go back to the introductory level course.

do u read the red pill in ur spare time or something

 

[Ubax45_]

Are you a lesbian or something?

You giving advice on how to ravaged through a women? bisinka, first time I seen this


Wale Xaalada wey adagtahey

Whoosh, everything is going over your head.
I'm just grateful I'm getting shorter responses out of you . I can put my advil away.

 

[Ubax45_]

do u read the red pill in ur spare time or something

It's really easy think of the stupidest thing one could do and act on it.

 

[Ferrari]

Unless you are ready for marriage, why would you approach someone horta?
And if you were ready for marriage, why approach a random woman on the streets? waxay tahay yaa og? I'd prefer to make my research and background check before I approach her.

 

[xisaabiye]

When I lock eyes with Xaliimo I just do some weird shit to see if it works. It's like a lab experiment