Is this just me or...

[Muji]

do you ever just go off people?

After becoming someone’s friend after a long period of time I don’t want to be their friend anymore

Usually it’s because I’m nitpicking at their personalities

This happened a lot more when I was a child but I still catch myself doing it as an adult

 

[Pureblood]

I understand what you mean. Whether it’s personality or certain habit I try to distance myself from or find annoying I still find myself cutting people off pretty easy

 

[Muji]

I understand what you mean. Whether it’s personality or certain habit I try to distance myself from or find annoying I still find myself cutting people off pretty easy

I cut off people to the point that it’s scary

I guess I know what I want and can tolerate

 

[Gooney112]

You sound judgemental. Nitpicking peoples personalities as a grown up sound toxic

 

[Muji]

You sound judgemental. Nitpicking peoples personalities as a grown up sound toxic

It’s true. It is toxic but I think this is more common than you believe. I wonder why this happens though.

 

[Gooney112]

It’s true. It is toxic but I think this is more common than you believe. I wonder why this happens though.

When we are not comfortable with ourselves and feel like opening up to people could lead to them rejecting us or not liking us. We look for their flaws and a reason to push them away. Its a form of self preservation

 

[Muji]

When we are not comfortable with ourselves and feel like opening up to people could lead to them rejecting us or not liking us. We look for their flaws and a reason to push them away. Its a form of self preservation

Wow that’s deep

 

[yaanyuur]

Maybe you have a different definition of friendship. My friends are either my best friends who are the ones I hang out with and talk to a lot and then there is the ones I talk to only when I see them and I am cool with. So find out who are your best friends and separate them like that.

 

[Gooney112]

Wow that’s deep

Just spitting the truth

 

[Muji]

Maybe you have a different definition of friendship. My friends are either my best friends who are the ones I hang out with and talk to a lot and then there is the ones I talk to only when I see them and I am cool with. So find out who are your best friends and separate them like that.

Yanyur that’s a good point.

I no longer severe ties and enjoy my own space when it gets like that.