Is this fair treatment?

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Somalaiklik

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This isn't the same situation as him knowingly adopting someone else's kid, he was manipulated and lied to.
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I can understand that but he should play an active life for the little girl. Trust me he will regret it when he is old and she will resent him self-hate and have daddy issues.
 
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Somalaiklik said:
I can understand that but he should play an active life for the little girl. Trust me he will regret it when he is old and she will resent him self-hate and have daddy issues.
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I doubt he will care, she should be resenting her real father and cheating mother, from this guy's point of view, they are strangers now.
 
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Somalaiklik

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Orphan? The mother is still alive lol :mjkkk: :mjlol:
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Which is good but that girl will wonder why she was kicked out from her fathers house. Anything could happen the mother could snap and start abusing her and unfortunately that little girl could ve abused raped even killed by random sickos. There are too many stories like this. If this happens god forbid that man will carry aroundthe worst regret.
 
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Odious Delirium

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I would kick them out the moment I find out. If its not my kid it's not my kid so it's not my problem the only time I would care about a kid not being my own is if I adopted the child.

Cheating and its consequences are not tolerated and no man should ever contemplate tolerating that nonsense.

Just because I'm petty I'm telling the child aswell so they know exactly why there not in the house no more with a dad and so they can hate the mother for what she is.
 
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Somalaiklik said:
Which is good but that girl will wonder why she was kicked out from her fathers house. Anything could happen the mother could snap and start abusing her and unfortunately that little girl could ve abused raped even killed by random sickos. There are too many stories like this. If this happens god forbid that man will carry aroundthe worst regret.
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So he should be burdened with looking after someone elses child due to random hypothetical scenarios? :drakekidding:
 
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Somalaiklik

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Either way this man has no blame, the woman should ask help from friends, family and real baby daddy if she needs it.
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Raising a child is q different story. But he should not drop her cold turkey? Also he should be concerned for thr childs welfare. We dont know what this woman is capable of. We dont know how the baby daddy will react. That child might have had a good life with him. (Or not we dont know) maybe they could work out a good living arrangement or he could take full custody of her.
 
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Odious Delirium

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Somalaiklik said:
Raising a child is q different story. But he should not drop her cold turkey? Also he should be concerned for thr childs welfare. We dont know what this woman is capable of. We dont know how the baby daddy will react. That child might have had a good life with him. (Or not we dont know) maybe they could work out a good living arrangement or he could take full custody of her.
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You sound like a woman stop talking on how a man should feel about this.

We are not you.

Would you be OK with a husband bringing in children from women he cheated with into your house so you can look after them while you where under the assumption that they where siblings or close relatives the whole time?
 
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Angelina

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Lool.. We are way more nuanced than you described us..
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Abdisamad, lets cut the pretenses. I've been on this forum for more than a year and a half. Ive literally had straight debates with people about this, even you LOL.

I remember, there was a woman whose husband cheated and you commented that it was her fault because she choose wrong.

Maybe I need to be delusional and petty and say it is his fault as he choose wrong as well loooool.
 
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Odious Delirium

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Angelina said:
Abdisamad, lets cut the pretenses. I've been on this forum for more than a year and a half. Ive literally had straight debates with people about this, even you LOL.

I remember, there was a woman whose husband cheated and you commented that it was her fault because she choose wrong.

Maybe I need to be delusional and petty and say it is his fault as he choose wrong as well loooool.
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Yeah it is his fault I guess šŸ¤·
 
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Somalaiklik said:
Raising a child is q different story. But he should not drop her cold turkey? Also he should be concerned for thr childs welfare. We dont know what this woman is capable of. We dont know how the baby daddy will react. That child might have had a good life with him. (Or not we dont know) maybe they could work out a good living arrangement or he could take full custody of her.
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Why are you putting all the responsibility on this guy who isn't even related to the child, no responsibility for the people that actually created her :kanyehmm:
 
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Somalaiklik

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You sound like a woman stop talking on how a man should feel about this.

We are not you.

Would you be OK with a husband bringing in children from women he cheated with into your house so you can look after them while you where under the assumption that they where siblings or close relatives the whole time?
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Truth be told i dont know how i would react but its not right to take it out on miskeen children
 
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