Is the overseas wife getting/passport bro a thing among Somalis?

[Burqad]

This filthy amhara man keeps talking about somalis.

Amhara men are the worst when it comes to treating their women.

“The most common age for a girl to marry is 12. We went to Amhara to learn more about child marriage”

https://www.girlsnotbrides.org/articles/meeting-child-brides-in-ethiopia/

 

[HabarSteven12]

wtf are you even talking about? the person your throwing somali incel accusations is an ethiopian oromo. FYI many people of many cultures who are raised in their homeland and come to the west in their adult years tend to marry from someone back home due to wanting to keep cultural ties and having a similar upbringing.

are pakistanis incels for always wanting to marry back home?

It has nothing to do with keeping cultural ties or having a similar upbringing . The excuses these incels make is hilarious. The guy claiming to be Ethiopian is lying. He is literally a somali larping as an Ethiopian. You can tell by his incel talking points. You guys keep regurgitating the same topics about marrying back home. Why not marry a girl who has a similar cultural upbringing as you in your current country of residence? Why do you have to go back to Somalia to marry a woman? Somali women don't do this. Why do somali men go back home to marry woman? The culture excuse is bullshit. Cultures evolve and change over time due to technological inventions and contact with different cultures. No culture is static. Be honest it has nothing to do with preserving culture. Certain Somali men go back home to exploit poor and underage girls. They are insecure and struggle to find a woman to marry in their former country of residence.

 

[Khaem]

Or perhaps they didn't want to deal with a run-through like you.

He's a habash troll don't pay too much mind

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

Or perhaps they didn't want to deal with a run-through like you.

It’s an ajanabi troll don’t pay it any mind loool wax waalan waaye who has a serious grudge against Somalis for some reason

 

[HabarSteven12]

Older generation mainly do it it’s common for uncles in their 40s-50s to get married back home

But nowadays i see some of the young guys born/raised in the west doing it as well

It ain’t passport bros if your going back to your home country imo

I am not sure why you deleted your comment. If that guy is oromo than what is he doing lurking on somalispot. He should be on oromospot. Secondly most somali men go back home to exploit underage girls. There is a whole documentary exposing what these perverted men do to underage girls in Somalia and Kenya. There is no accountability and justice for this vulnerable girls. That's why I am angry. You are acting like this isn't a huge issue in the Somali community and only a few men are expolitaing women back home.

 

[HabarSteven12]

It’s an ajanabi troll don’t pay it any mind loool wax waalan waaye who has a serious grudge against Somalis for some reason

I have no grudge. Just stating facts. You guys keep accusing people of being an ajanabi larper if he doesn't align with your ridiculous views. You guys are just embrassing yourselves. Wallahi I am Somali.

 

[Ragnimo]

The vast majority of my uncles, cousins, etc, have went back to Ethiopia for wives, who were trained to be wives since they were young, and taught how to cook, clean, etc; is this also true for somalis? do you guys tend to go back to somalia/somaliland/djibouti/nfd in kenya/somali region of ethiopia, for wives?

Qoti promo boy go worry about your own community.

 

[HabarSteven12]

I'm not sure how common it is, but I do know it is done by the diaspora. I have a few cousins that did it, I also plan on it soon. For me, I appreciate how much more religious they are than their western counterparts.

You are an incel. That's why you plan on going back home to exploit poor girls. Your options are very limited. You are insecure and don't have the ability to marry a Somali women in the West. So your only option is to exploit a poor girl back in Bari. Are you Cali saleeban?

 

[Chaseyourdreamzz]

I am not sure why you deleted your comment. If that guy is oromo than what is he doing lurking on somalispot. He should be on oromospot. Secondly most somali men go back home to exploit underage girls. There is a whole documentary exposing what these perverted men do to underage girls in Somalia and Kenya. There is no accountability and justice for this vulnerable girls. That's why I am angry. You are acting like this isn't a huge issue in the Somali community and only a few men are expolitaing women back home.

There’s all types of East Africans on somalispot there’s even a Sudanese fkd thread in politics section

secondly I don’t support anybody exploiting women back home whatsoever people should be angry about that

 

[Abba Sadacha]

Your uncles are incels. They don't meet the standards of Somali women in their former country of residence. That's why they move back to their homeland to exploit poor, vulnerable and underage girls. Typical Somali incel behavior. Your uncles were only ever tolerated by Somali women through force or arranged marriage. Somali incels are angry they no longer have easy access to exploit Somali women. That's why they move back to Somalia to take advantage of young girls.

Not really. I disagree. They grew up in Ethiopia, well until their adulthood; so for one, they will definitely relate more to the women who grew up there too.
Not to mention that, other things, such as the fact they are raised to be wifey material and very respectful and obedient to their husbands (which is not just cultural, but a huge part of Islam itself, as the hadith says: if anyone were to bow to anyone, it'd be the wife bowing to the Husband). Among other ahadith that emphasize the importance of such things, and on the other hand, the man is commanded to be patient, kind, loving, easy-going, and a provider for his wife.


Narrated Qays ibn Sa'd:

I went to al-Hirah and saw them (the people) prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, so I said: The Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) has most right to have prostration made before him. When I came to the Prophet (ﷺ), I said: I went to al-Hirah and saw them prostrating themselves before a satrap of theirs, but you have most right, Messenger of Allah, to have (people) prostrating themselves before you. He said: Tell me , if you were to pass my grave, would you prostrate yourself before it? I said: No. He then said: Do not do so. If I were to command anyone to make prostration before another I would command women to prostrate themselves before their husbands, because of the special right over them given to husbands by Allah.

حَدَّثَنَا عَمْرُو بْنُ عَوْنٍ، أَخْبَرَنَا إِسْحَاقُ بْنُ يُوسُفَ، عَنْ شَرِيكٍ، عَنْ حُصَيْنٍ، عَنِ الشَّعْبِيِّ، عَنْ قَيْسِ بْنِ سَعْدٍ، قَالَ أَتَيْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانٍ لَهُمْ فَقُلْتُ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ يُسْجَدَ لَهُ قَالَ فَأَتَيْتُ النَّبِيَّ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقُلْتُ إِنِّي أَتَيْتُ الْحِيرَةَ فَرَأَيْتُهُمْ يَسْجُدُونَ لِمَرْزُبَانٍ لَهُمْ فَأَنْتَ يَا رَسُولَ اللَّهِ أَحَقُّ أَنْ نَسْجُدَ لَكَ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ أَرَأَيْتَ لَوْ مَرَرْتَ بِقَبْرِي أَكُنْتَ تَسْجُدُ لَهُ ‏"‏ ‏.‏ قَالَ قُلْتُ لاَ ‏.‏ قَالَ ‏"‏ فَلاَ تَفْعَلُوا لَوْ كُنْتُ آمِرًا أَحَدًا أَنْ يَسْجُدَ لأَحَدٍ لأَمَرْتُ النِّسَاءَ أَنْ يَسْجُدْنَ لأَزْوَاجِهِنَّ لِمَا جَعَلَ اللَّهُ لَهُمْ عَلَيْهِنَّ مِنَ الْحَقِّ ‏"‏ ‏.‏

صحيح دون جملة القبر (الألباني)

حكم :

Reference	: Sunan Abi Dawud 2140
In-book reference	: Book 12, Hadith 95
English translation	: Book 11, Hadith 2135

 

[Bari🐍]

You are an incel. That's why you plan on going back home to exploit poor girls. Your options are very limited. You are insecure and don't have the ability to marry a Somali women in the West. So your only option is to exploit a poor girl back in Bari. Are you Cali saleeban?

Not everyone is an incel what the heck. I want my children raised in the motherland. I've been back home and lived there for a bit and I felt much more comfortable with the people there than diaspora. There are many men who share similar feelings, doesn't mean their all incel. Overgeneralizing is not a good thing to do.