My mother, grandmother, and aunts would laugh at you. You are just a Western femcel who has probably never been to Somalia and is trying to cope. The reasons you mentioned are false. My father, uncles, did not want female genital mutilation (FGM), but the women did it anyway and are proud. It is a matter of status and competition. If you would get your head out of your ass for once, you would realize that the man gets zero sexual benefit from FGM, and in fact, it can make childbirth more dangerous for the woman.
Yes they have fear of being shamed and outcasted by their fellow women and thats fact majority of Somali men do not even know the process or how its done or what it even does and we can do interview and test back home its all women business and taboo to speak on even in my house.