Well it depends on how much will power and self control you have. Granted not everyone is capable of self control. It tends to get easier as you get older.Controlling your urges as a man is easier said than done.
Men have like 17 - 18 times more testosterone, literally cannot behave the same way as women.
This wasn't as much of a problem in the past(prior to the industrial revolution) as boys were able to get married(and also work) as soon as they hit puberty.
Some things you can do for transmuting the energy include: fasting, lowering your gaze, being steadfast on the deen and some sort of exercise. There are a lot more, but it's a bit too much to mention here.
Women tend to look down on men, and assume that most men are like crazed wild animals that have only one thing on their mind. Prove them wrong my friend, never ever let a woman have any sexual power over you.
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