Is My Gay Male Friend a Misogynist?

[Robin]

I have a feeling that my friend is sneak dissing me under the veil of friendship. He is gay, you know the feminine type of gay. I didn't have a problem with him at first but some of his comments are shady.

He says things that make me feel shamed. For example I was wearing this nice dress and he was saying how I wanted some male attention that night This type of shit has happened before. I don't know why it bothers him when I dress up.

And recently me and him were outside at some park. A group of young men are walking by us, like six to ten of them and all of a sudden he says some weird shit. He was like 'If they come after us, you just distract them', basically implying that I should let them all f*ck me while he runs away. He laughed it off but I felt some type of way about it. Like excuse me?

For some reason it seems like he's constantly shaming me. Should I confront him or just let it go? He's a fun person to be around and I like hanging out with him usually. But can gay men be as misogynistic as straight men?

 

[Jaydaan]

No offence....but is he shaming you, or is he trying to say you are a on the low. Its like when people wanna make a point, but use jokes to say it even though they mean it

 

[Robin]

No offence....but is he shaming you, or is he trying to say you are a on the low. Its like when people wanna make a point, but use jokes to say it even though they mean it

I mean, we talk about some r-rated topics for sure. He was the one who first started with the sexual discussions and talks about boys all the time, I just followed his lead. It’s all for fun but I guess he thinks I’m serious.

 

[VantaBlack]

All gays are women haters, just think about it deeply and your answer is right there.

 

[Basra]

I have a feeling that my friend is sneak dissing me under the veil of friendship. He is gay, you know the feminine type of gay. I didn't have a problem with him at first but some of his comments are shady.

He says things that make me feel shamed. For example I was wearing this nice dress and he was saying how I wanted some male attention that night This type of shit has happened before. I don't know why it bothers him when I dress up.

And recently me and him were outside at some park. A group of young men are walking by us, like six to ten of them and all of a sudden he says some weird shit. He was like 'If they come after us, you just distract them', basically implying that I should let them all f*ck me while he runs away. He laughed it off but I felt some type of way about it. Like excuse me?

For some reason it seems like he's constantly shaming me. Should I confront him or just let it go? He's a fun person to be around and I like hanging out with him usually. But can gay men be as misogynistic as straight men?

It seems you are the one feeling self conscious about your low key promiscuity. I am not saying u sleep around, i am just saying, why do you run to assume your friend is shaming u? For all we know, your gay friend is just wishing he was a girl.

The first scenic was honest. Gay men know fashion, so there is a difference between a outfit and a conservative one.


Second scenic-- he means to say, the men will be charmed by you but beat up a gay man out of homophobia or just rob him. He is basically having a vagina envy. He wished he had the attention of the boys. which is screwed up if u ask me. But don't ask me please

 

[TekNiKo]

He has vagina envy and wishes to be a . I dont even know why women entertain gays they deep down envy you

 

[Basra]

He has vagina envy and wishes to be a . I dont even know why women entertain gays they deep down envy you

 

[Jaydaan]

All gays are women haters, just think about it deeply and your answer is right there.

This is actually true. Flamboyant gays are women haters deep down. Tbey see them as rivals

 

[Timo Jareer and proud]

KICK HIS FAG ASS


He is shaming you, eliminate the and if you need support hit me up on the DM's.

 

[IBRAHIM.]

I have a feeling that my friend is sneak dissing me under the veil of friendship. He is gay, you know the feminine type of gay. I didn't have a problem with him at first but some of his comments are shady.

He says things that make me feel shamed. For example I was wearing this nice dress and he was saying how I wanted some male attention that night This type of shit has happened before. I don't know why it bothers him when I dress up.

And recently me and him were outside at some park. A group of young men are walking by us, like six to ten of them and all of a sudden he says some weird shit. He was like 'If they come after us, you just distract them', basically implying that I should let them all f*ck me while he runs away. He laughed it off but I felt some type of way about it. Like excuse me?

For some reason it seems like he's constantly shaming me. Should I confront him or just let it go? He's a fun person to be around and I like hanging out with him usually. But can gay men be as misogynistic as straight men?

A fagg and an alleged . who should i laugh at first?

 

[Lady Whistledown]

He has vagina envy and wishes to be a . I dont even know why women entertain gays they deep down envy you

I was just about to say this. There are gay men that resent you for being a woman. So they will constantly jab at you. Next time he says something to you, say "You wish you were me" and he'll be silent.